@beingandbecomingavi: the right people ask before assuming 🩷

Blanca :

The saddest part is that I did talk to them and it keep getting worse. 😭

Rh🌸 :

Choosing to talk ABOUT the person you have a problem with, instead of talking to them directly means.. YOU DON'T ACTUALLY WANT TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM!

catmeow :

some people want to misunderstand you — that is so true.. like they're just waiting for that something that will spark that thought in them, so no matter what kind of explanation or opinion or perspective that will be coming out of your mouth, that won't do anything because that's their true intention

LexyFinds :

I’ve felt this too. Keep these people close because they really want to understand you & that is such a treasure 💗

Lo Life Embroidery :

And when they come with curiosity instead of accusations or assumptions - top tier

; :

there comes a point in life where you eventually make peace with the narratives people have made up and your desire to be understood perishes

Eika Zulaikha :

I hate when a person assuming that I have bad intention on them while i’m not at all🥹 I will never talk bad behind my friends especially when I treasure them. I always be genuine to my friends. And sadly, even I explain and apologize, the person still nitpick on things when all these while you are kind, treat this person well, make sure this person safely arrived home, giving alot of my time. So sad when you found out that person is not genuine to you and doesnt thinks the same as you on the friendship. The best thing is to walk away bcs i cant be friends with people who dont like me, have different values and projecting their insecurities on other people

_imLaurennnn :

COMMUNICATION 🌈 ✨

Sana :

Unfortunately had this happen way too many times and your 👏👏

🌻Monicia🌻 :

Sometimes they come to hear your side of the story, and still twist it—because the version they heard sounds better than the truth.🥺

noninuna :

once i wear masked to the office because i had a stuffy & runny nose,feeling cold is on the way. i wear it to not spread it to other. one person said, she didn't hear me sneeze even once the whole day. i was like, do i need to sneeze to prove my sickness?

Veta Faustin :

I respect communication so much!

Shri :

People who already believe a bad story about you , already made up their mind about you , don’t waste your time on changing someone’s mind

Nadine Makboul :

The best kind of people 🙏🏻💯

Lashedby_ona'swink :

The right people will always talk to you 💕

Prescilia :

This is very trueeeee

Petals & Paisleys by Raheemah :

if the disrespect feeling loud enough, I ain't coming to ask anything. sorry.

نالا🖤 :

Amanda Givens :

Sometimes people go to the person and still gets a lie!!!

Rankz :

Clarity is better than confusion.

allaboutangell🦋 :

Omg I’m such a good person I need to tell myself this more

Floriane ✨ :

Yes but when the things you just learnt is crazy you don’t wanna have the other version sorry

II.AM.PHENOMENAL.DAVZZZ :

One of the worst feelings is trusting someone thinking they have the same perspective like you do but then to find out our relationship was totally different.

zoë💋 :

I did and she accused me of harassment so maybe don’t do that either

Lee.lily :

So true, people who are able to call, text or something requesting to talk instead of taking whatever narrative is being pushed at that moment are the best. So many things get lost in translation whilst we all are facing different situations. I appreciate those that reach out to get the full story and talk it out. ❤️‍🩹