Antonio Breez
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Wednesday 11 March 2026 04:30:25 GMT
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Josh :
As an avoidant I would say “ I hear you and everything you are feeling is valid, and you deserve someone who can give you that. I respect your decision “
2026-03-13 17:41:48
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systemreset25 :
As a former avoidant that’s dealt with a genuine mirror..sometimes we need to be called out and told what’s what🤷🏼♂️
2026-03-11 20:48:13
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roma :
Move on guys. You deserve better 🥰
2026-03-11 04:44:57
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morgasmus :
simply leave. without saying anything
2026-03-14 02:32:28
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𖥸 counselling.with.shay ꩜ :
Hey…so that was a boundary not an ultimatum….
2026-03-13 11:31:35
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mmm :
the reason youre doing the whole ”if you keep being inconsistent, i wont respond/encage” is NOT supposed to be for the avoidant… its for you. as in you are setting the boundary for you not dealing with someone who is inconsistent. its not supposed to be about getting them/not getting them its about respecting yourself and seeing if they take the time to heal.
2026-03-12 08:06:01
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Ann without an E :
Silently leave. That’s all, don’t care if they come back, just walk away. Live your life and move on. It’s not worth the hassle.
2026-03-14 04:09:18
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PrincessJaqui :
To love an avoidant is to learn to love and stay with yourself
2026-03-14 07:42:05
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Moongirlie :
I feel like its emotional manipulation
2026-03-11 05:12:04
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Crystal Goddess :
Don’t waste your time and energy! Block and delete
2026-03-11 23:51:23
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kvsh. :
NEVER DO ALL THAT ...avoidant or not
2026-03-13 18:00:25
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caitmigneault :
Don’t say anything. Walk away quietly and block them. Work on yourself and find an emotional available person that is secure ❤️
2026-03-14 17:14:04
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makeup_and_angels :
Just move on it’s not worth it
2026-03-13 09:52:29
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user10040404 :
Chat told me to block them lmfao
2026-05-04 18:09:41
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Roly :
Am I right about her being avoidant? And if yes which one is it FA or DA? While we were together there were barely any day that we would spend without each other. We cuddled and kissed a LOT. We were always available for each other (texted back immediately, etc). She also said she wanna marry me and wanna live together for half a year straight until I promised her that I will give her a promise ring for our 1 year anniversary (she broke up with me in the end of February but we didn’t “finalise” it till end of school - we were a bit distant in march, but in April it felt like we are together again until the guy found her) we also planned to move in a rent together after we’ve finished school and I found a job. She was really cold with me after she “finalised” the break up (when she ran into that rebound) and acted like I was the problem. We met 1 last time because of school, but couldn’t talk to her (she said a lot that it wouldn’t work and that’s why she wanna leave me but she couldn’t say any reason why it wouldn’t work - so I wanted to ask her if she found a reason). I texted her if we could at least have a call and she was okay with that - we planned it on Wednesday but we couldn’t make it (she was so nervous / anxious that she couldn’t eat till 2pm) so we called next day - weird thing is she was excited for the call (she said it) and she was actually kind with me not that cold.. she had a good dream with me.. she sits where she was sitting at their table when we were together.. and we talked for 4 HOURS. I said that I will leave the door open for her but she said she will block me because she feels better that way (I said I don’t mind it’s up to her), but she didn’t block me yet.. I hope this helps seeing the full picture ^^ (Some side note: I was her first and we’ve been together for a year - she wanted to break up after we’ve finished school (we were class mates) - a guy met her (he complimented her and so on) and she ran to him from our relationship - it’s been a month and they’re together. We barely had any problems and if we had, then I was willing to fix things, but we never rly had any big problems that’s why it was weird for me that she wanted to BU
2026-06-08 19:17:37
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Roland Boss676 :
The second best response is "ok" The best response is silence. Total silence. Salt isn't on the menu, but when it's missing everyone feels it.
2026-03-29 15:32:43
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Naina :
2 weeks is too accurate! I wonder what the psychology behind is
2026-03-29 12:15:40
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Asa :
Yeah, my current lover is an avoidant. I never tried the “Do this or else” thing. I just told him that his extended absences and inability to have a predictable communication schedule hurt me and I don’t enjoy being hurt. Somehow, the appeal to emotion helped. 🤷🏾♀️
2026-03-28 21:51:29
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Lou 💋 :
I just let people skate, I don’t tell them the ice is thin - once you show me twice you display that type of inconsistent, hot/cold, whatever behaviour, I just go and ain’t explaining shit.
2026-03-27 13:12:25
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Melbieoneandonly :
Just post a picture with your new healthy relationship and mooooooooove on
2026-03-12 00:42:55
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A🧚🏾♂️✨🪄 :
I’ve actually never heard that before lol
2026-03-11 15:49:11
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420🍁 :
the only way is to act like u don't notice or care
2026-03-13 19:54:39
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PamDeezy :
Don’t even send long messages at all
2026-05-05 23:39:57
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_o_o_ :
Don’t see any problem with people communicating their boundaries and giving you an option to choose. They told you what you need to do to stay in their lives. If you aren’t willing to do that then it just isn’t a match. We as avoidants can’t expect everyone to cater to our attachment styles. We really do need to work extra hard and listen when our partners are communicating and bringing ups serious topics. If a person tells you what they need to feel happy and secure in a relationship and you can’t give that to them it’s okay. Both parties need to move on though. We all have non negotiables and there is nothing wrong with communicating that.
2026-03-13 19:44:07
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wedad :
Just leave bro it’s not worth it
2026-04-27 20:03:52
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