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Morpheu's Field :
Anxious attachment is basically the self-fulfilling prophecy.
2026-04-20 15:16:45
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Mike :
literally this. I had a whole ass conversation with my friend last night about insecurities in a relationship and it boiled down to "do you trust her saying she wants you? then we're done here you should be good"
2026-03-11 14:23:40
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Hadil Abid :
But what if I caught him lying a couple of times and I started to be suspicious
2026-03-11 15:22:43
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saint.scab :
Dude this was actually a massive issue for my partner. He said my constant need for reassurance meant I didn’t trust him and it was making him resentful that I made him feel like a liar because honesty is DEEPLY important to him. A big wake up call when I was first healing because I never really thought about it that way.
2026-03-11 22:30:19
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Dead_August :
Literally stopped myself with this today. Started going down this mental spiral and then stopped myself like ??? He’s never lied to you. He hasn’t given you a reason to think he’s lying to you. Why do you assume he’s lying to you? That’s not fair.
2026-03-15 00:00:19
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Harpiiefox0 :
This is something I had to work on within myself. If they look me in the eyes and choose to lie, that’s on them and not something I can control. I will handle it if it comes. Wasting energy worrying about the possibility accomplishes nothing.
2026-03-13 02:36:57
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Marc :
trusting your partner is so, so important. especially when your instinct is to believe they're lying to save your feelings. the biggest way I've challenged my own anxious attachment boils down to constantly saying "okay, but what if things end up being good this time?" and it's way more effective than you'd think 😭
2026-03-12 02:00:56
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nea.babybeauty :
I had to learn to not punish someone for what someone in my past did. And I may still be anxious but my behaviors come off as secure
2026-03-13 11:20:27
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yas🛸 :
I honestly don’t believe I’m anxiously attached at all. I am secure until their behavior causes me to feel otherwise. What you give is what you get. 🔄
2026-05-06 12:06:35
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bekkie✨️ :
as someone who has just ended a relationship because my partner did this all the time, THANK YOU. It ruins happy relationships and doesn't actually give the other person the credit/recognise their character for who they show themselves as 😔
2026-05-25 14:10:14
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jupi :
i would text my friends my intrusive thoughts about abandonment because i just needed to speak them to think it through and i knew they were false and asking for reassurance is self sabotage. and being asked for reassurance constantly has to feel like shit because why doesnt my partner believe me when i say i love them? am i doing something wrong? why cant they believe me? and yeah very occasionally i'll be in a spiral i cannot pull myself out of and i'll ask then, but that's like 0.05% of the time and the other 99.95% of the time is using my coping mechanisms successfully
2026-03-12 01:17:15
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Sapphire :
Had this exact conversation with my ex. Had to explain that they needed to trust me and it her that they believed that I was lying to them about caring about them.
2026-03-11 18:24:59
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Jellybeans :
The “it’s not kind” really helped me refrain a lot of relationships
2026-03-12 03:51:18
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🤎 sweet 🥔 tater 👜🥠 :
I’ve been SEARCHING tik tok for content like this this last week. Tryin to not ruin this amazing new relationship. Needed these. Binging them at work. Tysm girl
2026-03-11 21:19:17
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grACE :
I love this. We are pregnant with our first child tho so it really has raised the stakes on my anxiety.
2026-04-23 17:18:42
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Madison Montgomery :
Wooowwwwwwww this is SO good!!!!
2026-03-12 12:22:27
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anikaburgers :
all i did was believe her and she played in my face
2026-03-11 15:45:37
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emily 🧌 :
thanks girl
2026-03-21 19:46:39
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Amina :
As I step into this next phase of my life I believe this 100 precent ….
2026-04-30 17:46:21
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becca :
this is so true
2026-03-25 15:04:35
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. :
It's so hard bc i literally KNOW this and can think rationally, but it doesn't stop me from feeling upset and anxious and still listening to the bad voice. I am constantly in a fucking war in my brain and im tired
2026-04-26 20:46:07
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littlered1321 :
Oo i have this shirt too
2026-03-30 18:04:51
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Aja 🐘 :
I needed this. Trying to heal my relationship and I need to remember this
2026-04-22 17:19:30
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rahne :
god i need to hear this thank you
2026-03-12 12:50:34
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