@burned_notbroken: Relationship burnout happens over a long period of time with pretty predicable steps. #relationshipburnout #emotionalburnout #burnedoutpursuer #separation #divorcetok

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coconut20231
Coconut :
Husbands currently in the turn it around stage after me pursuing the relationship for 16 years. I’ve agreed to give it another month but I’m done regardless
2026-03-11 19:05:30
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oteliaapril
Otelia :
I felt this to my core. Near tears sitting across the room from him. I’m in stage 3/4 realizing he will never be able to meet my needs because he refuses to see any issues in what he’s doing, I’m tired of his ‘trying’ with no actual change.
2026-03-15 17:20:50
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brittnayranne
Brittany Raines :
This is me too a T. I’m at stage 4. I said I’d give another chance but I don’t think I have it in me anymore. 9 years of trying and forgiving and I’m tired.
2026-03-11 20:38:54
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paranormal_matt
ParanormalMatt :
Does your husband have an account? I would really appreciate hearing his perspective. I am him in my marriage and currently You have literally vocalized everything my wife has been communicating to me and we are now planing next steps….Thanks for your transparency.
2026-03-13 19:50:15
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biblio.manic
Biblio Manic :
Im in stage 4. He wants to fix it and Im resentful of that.
2026-03-30 10:42:30
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roadhound37
Chris connors :
How do you get that person back from detachment
2026-03-11 16:20:52
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jessicarb1984
Jessie :
I'm about to go back to work and school and I know when I jump into that I will have to choose where to put my energy and focus and I will choose me this time and I am a little sad and afraid because I will have to accept that nothing I said or did worked and it never will and it's actually over.
2026-03-12 16:04:07
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ftskayla
Ftskayla :
It came out if nowhere!!
2026-03-12 08:01:56
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rawan.arch
🇵🇸 :
This 100% accurate. I can't believe how incredibly real this video was. I'm in the final stage, planning, focusing on me & my daughter. I feel like I finally got my energy back.
2026-03-11 20:26:23
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summer.ridenour1
Summer :
Very accurate. I'm at stage 4 and ready for the next!
2026-03-11 18:48:07
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meganjean00
Megan :
Why do I feel I’ve been in stage four for like 5 years?
2026-03-22 21:57:24
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pegalyn123
pegalyn123 :
Every stage. No panic or engagement from the other side. It’s over 🥺
2026-03-11 17:36:43
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brookeswiney642
Brooke Swiney642 :
Wow. Just wow. You NAILED this. I'm at stage 4 & every word of this is spot on.
2026-04-07 21:02:59
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goldphoenix8
Gold Phoenix :
I’m at the stage where we’re going to couples therapy, but for me it’s a last ditch effort to salvage what’s left. I’m already trying to understand what a future without her looks like. The love is still there and I know it is, but I can’t feel it anymore
2026-03-23 05:46:37
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c0rr1nn3
corrinnemarie1 :
In a 3 year ldr & am in stage 2-3.. I cannot deal with another endless & deep conversation ending in hope, just to be invalidated within 24 hours.. So I’ve pulled right back now & keeping it friendly not loving.. worse thing is, I don’t think he’s even noticed but at the same time I don’t want to address it even if he has
2026-03-18 17:24:21
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jblflatpicker
Jarod B Lewis :
Spot. On.
2026-03-12 05:57:27
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fayehadleyofficial
Faye :
this is EXACTLY where I am at
2026-03-12 14:47:19
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sb155250
Sb :
Thank u for the validation
2026-03-11 19:39:53
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jt55836
JT :
What if, instead of quietly detaching and being done with the relationship, you just communicate to the person how you feel?
2026-03-11 16:16:45
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kiyoshi.roo
Kiyoshi roo :
looking for the highlight on the recovery!
2026-03-11 23:22:58
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user67295307913220
user67295307913220 :
I didnt realize that I was living this. Every single thing you said is spot on for me. I feel oddly at peace though with finally getting to the stage where I'm not thinking about trying to have those physical connections.
2026-03-12 12:29:47
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bwilliams302
BW1k⚡️ :
Im the presuer.Shes the avoisant. She moved out and im still trying and im exhausted.
2026-03-11 15:46:56
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journalwithme1021
Jot & Dot :
I’m between 3-4
2026-05-07 14:03:51
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bohemianbeliever
Bohemian Believer :
Stage 4 here! 😭
2026-03-27 15:38:45
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oneblockwide
oneblockwide :
Anyone else currently in stage 3 moving closer to stage 4? I don’t even recognize myself anymore…💔
2026-04-26 23:00:12
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