@abbyrodmanpsychotherapy: Every affair starts with a narrative. And, if one or both parties are married, those narratives are generally not flattering to their spouses. The spouse who cheats needs to justify their behaviors and they will throw their spouses under the bus to accomplish that — it’s really that simple. #cheater #cheating #narcissist
My affair ended in a very happy marriage. We were both married before
2026-03-12 09:06:33
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Empressofthenight :
I had an affair 22 years ago. Still together. Those words were never said.
2026-03-12 00:37:03
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sunnyberrystarfish :
not true. he never spoke ill of his wife.
2026-03-17 08:09:29
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Danradfam6 :
Years ago I fell for a man that was engaged but I didn’t know. We dated eight months. We met at a store and locked eyes and that’s how it started. I don’t think he was out that day looking to have an affair. After I found out I left him but I always think about the affairs that start because of that intense chemistry. I’m not condoning cheating or having affairs but sometimes it just happens.
2026-04-11 02:28:48
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Sassy Sexy Strong Coach 🇨🇦 :
This is not an either or situation. Cheating partner … not cool. Person who knows the individual they’re with is married … not cool.
2026-03-14 14:42:48
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Nelly Mabunda :
Nope...he said he's married, loves and takes care of his wife and in the same way he'll take care of me too
2026-03-12 06:26:40
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tinasutton00 :
I found out mine was married 4 months after we started seeing each other I already fell in love with him and don't know what to do it's been 2 years
2026-03-15 04:27:38
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niksmith6510 :
Can you talk about the one night on a business trip?
2026-03-17 16:22:41
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Yessica Noriega Del Campo :
Even when I’m struggling in my marriage I’ve learned to say positive things about my marriage.
2026-03-13 17:27:54
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Scorpio girl :
Yup. This is how my last relationship started except he also told me he was in an open relationship which was a downright lie. I didn’t know that until much, many years later.
2026-03-11 21:34:53
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Chulin :
This topic clearly brings up a lot of hurt for people. Real life is usually more complicated than the comment section.
2026-03-13 03:44:02
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Benni :
It’s still wrong on both parties.
2026-03-13 15:33:34
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Maureenlacey :
Omg. This is so dam true I can’t 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
2026-03-11 20:41:46
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Floki :
It really comes down to both understanding how they receive love. Then you meet each others love language every day. If you both do that, you will never be unhappy and want each other every day
2026-03-18 22:56:20
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user1897171184913 :
100% true. Been through it.
2026-03-13 17:22:00
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user6116887216379 :
Yep
2026-03-17 02:34:20
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ange :
thank you for this
2026-03-17 23:11:37
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ej :
Not always.
2026-03-14 04:15:38
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Jess :
ouch
2026-03-18 14:13:32
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Jackie V. 🧜🏼♀️ :
My ex husband had an affair and I NEVER blamed her! Not once
2026-03-14 23:50:51
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Wendo :
Not true.
2026-03-14 08:57:31
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Tes :
excuse me
2026-03-14 07:08:36
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Firewoman :
Not always . This guy never once talked bad about his wife .
2026-03-17 14:12:30
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KJ :
This is not true
2026-03-13 02:08:29
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carpenterjayman :
It actually starts when someone gives up
2026-03-13 13:05:26
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