year 20 here. communication is 15% easier than year 1. progress.
2026-03-11 23:44:36
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cozybooksnbrew :
It’s the best when you’re arguing about a topic for like 30 min only to discover you been arguing the same exact point and then you have to angrily agree to agree 🙃
2026-03-13 13:18:45
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Katie :
My husband only understands my feelings/emotions if it’s in email form
2026-03-12 18:33:18
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Dawn Keuer :
Anytime I try to speak how I feel about something he has done that makes me feel a certain way my husband just says you always have to point out the negative , I can’t do anything right … I can not figure out how to speak to him without him feeling this way because Im not trying to make him feel like he does everything wrong I just want him to see how what he’s doing comes off as hurtful to me.
2026-03-12 18:49:40
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Lori :
Fuck I’m tired
2026-03-21 01:03:13
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foryousarita :
So we all are having the same experience???
2026-03-13 00:16:51
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kat :
how'd you get the talking part? mine is so silent. 10 years.
2026-03-11 23:59:50
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Kash :
It's exhausting
2026-03-12 17:42:30
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Cathia0016 :
And I’m in perimenopause 😅
2026-03-12 11:43:16
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Rebecca 🌟 :
I gave up after 24 years and left…I’m not meant to teach for such a long period of time 🙄
2026-03-12 12:11:59
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Annette aka Netty talk :
I’m literally rolling in the floor. This is so real. 😂😂😂
2026-03-12 10:40:15
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rebeccadupain :
I feel like I’m constantly in a miscommunication
2026-03-12 00:58:50
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Jessica :
15 years with me and my man....thank you I get it!! I needed this. communication is our worst problem that we cant get on top of it lol
2026-04-01 01:05:59
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Tricia 🌻 :
Sqme!!!!! Been with my husband 26 years and I feel we've are barely scratching the service on good communication. It's basically our only issue but it's a huge issue. He a good guy. Im torn and frustrated.
2026-03-13 04:03:09
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Cassie :
I think that actually is normal. lol it takes so long, especially if you start a relationship young because you both are growing up and changing at the same time…AND continuously trying to communicate.
2026-03-12 10:31:04
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Tom Sawyer :
I have a fantastic therapist that we now share. We have gone over the lapses in communication AD NAUSEAM in sessions together. I come in peace. My position is clear. She just cannot reconcile it. This week (8 years in) she acknowledged the situation on two occasions. A MIRACLE 🥰
2026-03-11 23:54:44
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Kourt :
You are literally my favorite person on tik tok. I relate to you so much. I’m always laughing.
2026-03-13 17:27:52
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Darse :
There's listening, and then there's LISTENING. I always feel like it's the first one.
2026-03-12 16:43:28
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Missa :
Married 33 years here.
Same.
2026-03-16 21:10:45
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Cassandra :
I always find myself asking “do you know what that word means that I just used” with the response of no and then it’s a rabbit hole of definitions. As frustrating as it is though comprehension holds more value than communication does which goes hand in hand with how impact is more important intention.
2026-03-13 00:16:51
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tahirahprice :
Oh so there is hope for me? 11yrs now 🙈😩
2026-03-12 16:28:33
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✨ ashes✨ :
Same been with my husband 17 years, our communication is just finally starting to connect but seriously, he doesn’t understand me 😂
2026-03-13 22:14:30
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Jen Jen :
Ah this makes me feel better about my 8 year marriage
2026-03-12 21:39:15
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Andre Velazquez605 :
The fact you have been with him for 16 years I love keep fit up
2026-03-12 16:07:04
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