@coffeewithasha: Guilt tripping parents create children that feel the need to justify their existence. #toxicfamily #toxicmom #emotionallyimmatureparents #workplaceproblems #careeradvice

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definitelynotastalker__
🖕🏻 :
y'all don't get the point, you should love, respect and help them WITHOUT being pressured into it, I wouldn't want my kids to love me because they're forced to
2026-03-16 14:29:55
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eznahtreel
EZNAHTREEL :
Mines were the FAWKING worst
2026-03-12 16:34:39
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ekjr91
EKJR91 :
we owe them honor respect.. we owe them a lot actually
2026-03-12 10:25:59
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stevenmasih16
steven@hm007! :
you owe everything to your parents,
2026-03-17 16:54:49
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pabloski30
Pryce :
Wrong , you owe your parents care and love and support if they can’t support themselves. Don’t be a bad child
2026-03-17 01:17:15
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aminaa.a_42
𝐀𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐚🦇 :
Real and also off topic but u look like zoe saldana
2026-07-26 21:17:48
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stylista_essential
✨🤍 :
I’m constantly being gaslit that providing a house was a luxury and I owe reimbursement as an adult. Thank you for the reminder for those of us who need this. 💗💗
2026-03-16 00:52:44
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.ubiquityy
yuri 🍥𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒♡ :
this is why im going no contact 😂
2026-03-15 22:38:47
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dorkabramborka
dorkabramborka :
then nobody owes nothing to nobody
2026-03-15 17:35:20
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analir1982
rilana :
i'm a mom myself and the only thing i want is that they will be happy. i'm stopping the cycle
2026-03-17 13:40:43
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gab95716
Gab¡ :
Exactly. And IF your parents are indeed the best parents in the world, they should've never once made you feel like you owed them or their family anything. :)
2026-03-14 21:13:09
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carphone12
Jack Jim398 :
I owe thanks to my parents for supportig and being there for me
2026-03-17 15:39:18
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user3714422137358
user3714422137358 :
you owe them respect and courtesy
2026-03-17 18:06:00
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velis_universe
velis_universe :
Exactly, we didn’t choose to be here. If we choose to help, that’s our choice.
2026-03-16 20:54:41
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schwifty90
Jodz :
so glad my 5 kids dont listen to thus crap 😂 and yes we have a fantastic relationship
2026-03-16 17:15:42
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kaleidoscope.gardens
Cass.the.sass :
“You were supposed to be the point” got me. My parents made me start paying for my own clothes, toiletries, gas, etc. at 16. I was very much a financial burden.
2026-03-16 12:01:38
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_agujiegbe
غزل 🦌 :
Soooo true. Many parents need to learn that being intrusive isn’t a “close family”, kids giving into every demand isn’t a “good family”, and silence over accountability isn’t a “functional family.” To me, family esp parent and child relationships are 100% down to what people do for one another voluntarily through love, not pressured obligation.
2026-03-15 13:15:42
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whoismedinah
medinah! :
everything is transactional with mine
2026-03-16 18:06:15
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marmar_9009
Mariana :
in the best of the cases parents owes us
2026-03-16 18:43:57
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brinduhokiii
Brin X :
I dont but I try to repay them for taking care of me.
2026-03-17 15:22:11
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pinkneurotic
Viv❦ :
I love hearing this from the perspective of someone that has a healthy relationship with their parent(s), thank you ♥️
2026-03-13 18:29:29
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thando.khumalo078
Thando Khumalo Waterford :
My kids don’t owe me anything
2026-03-17 05:36:44
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itz_ash133
Itz_Ash133 :
She ain’t lying
2026-03-12 20:54:09
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loonamoona66
LoonaMoona :
I agree! I don’t want anything from my children when they grow up. They don’t need to take care of me or pay my bills. I’m entitled to NOTHING. I’d love for them to visit me often and let me be a part of their adult lives 🥺 but it’ll be a privilege not a right
2026-03-14 05:03:58
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shayla.dawn2
shaydawn335 🇨🇦 :
Finally. Thank you. ❤️
2026-03-14 08:51:34
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