@coffeewithasha: Guilt tripping parents create children that feel the need to justify their existence. #toxicfamily #toxicmom #emotionallyimmatureparents #workplaceproblems #careeradvice
y'all don't get the point, you should love, respect and help them WITHOUT being pressured into it, I wouldn't want my kids to love me because they're forced to
2026-03-16 14:29:55
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EZNAHTREEL :
Mines were the FAWKING worst
2026-03-12 16:34:39
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EKJR91 :
we owe them honor respect.. we owe them a lot actually
2026-03-12 10:25:59
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steven@hm007! :
you owe everything to your parents,
2026-03-17 16:54:49
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Pryce :
Wrong , you owe your parents care and love and support if they can’t support themselves. Don’t be a bad child
2026-03-17 01:17:15
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𝐀𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐚🦇 :
Real and also off topic but u look like zoe saldana
2026-07-26 21:17:48
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✨🤍 :
I’m constantly being gaslit that providing a house was a luxury and I owe reimbursement as an adult. Thank you for the reminder for those of us who need this. 💗💗
2026-03-16 00:52:44
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yuri 🍥𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒♡ :
this is why im going no contact 😂
2026-03-15 22:38:47
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dorkabramborka :
then nobody owes nothing to nobody
2026-03-15 17:35:20
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rilana :
i'm a mom myself and the only thing i want is that they will be happy.
i'm stopping the cycle
2026-03-17 13:40:43
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Gab¡ :
Exactly. And IF your parents are indeed the best parents in the world, they should've never once made you feel like you owed them or their family anything. :)
2026-03-14 21:13:09
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Jack Jim398 :
I owe thanks to my parents for supportig and being there for me
2026-03-17 15:39:18
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user3714422137358 :
you owe them respect and courtesy
2026-03-17 18:06:00
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velis_universe :
Exactly, we didn’t choose to be here. If we choose to help, that’s our choice.
2026-03-16 20:54:41
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Jodz :
so glad my 5 kids dont listen to thus crap 😂 and yes we have a fantastic relationship
2026-03-16 17:15:42
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Cass.the.sass :
“You were supposed to be the point” got me. My parents made me start paying for my own clothes, toiletries, gas, etc. at 16. I was very much a financial burden.
2026-03-16 12:01:38
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غزل 🦌 :
Soooo true. Many parents need to learn that being intrusive isn’t a “close family”, kids giving into every demand isn’t a “good family”, and silence over accountability isn’t a “functional family.” To me, family esp parent and child relationships are 100% down to what people do for one another voluntarily through love, not pressured obligation.
2026-03-15 13:15:42
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medinah! :
everything is transactional with mine
2026-03-16 18:06:15
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Mariana :
in the best of the cases parents owes us
2026-03-16 18:43:57
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Brin X :
I dont but I try to repay them for taking care of me.
2026-03-17 15:22:11
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Viv❦ :
I love hearing this from the perspective of someone that has a healthy relationship with their parent(s), thank you ♥️
2026-03-13 18:29:29
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Thando Khumalo Waterford :
My kids don’t owe me anything
2026-03-17 05:36:44
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Itz_Ash133 :
She ain’t lying
2026-03-12 20:54:09
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LoonaMoona :
I agree! I don’t want anything from my children when they grow up. They don’t need to take care of me or pay my bills. I’m entitled to NOTHING. I’d love for them to visit me often and let me be a part of their adult lives 🥺 but it’ll be a privilege not a right
2026-03-14 05:03:58
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shaydawn335 🇨🇦 :
Finally. Thank you. ❤️
2026-03-14 08:51:34
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