Deffo find a new dentist!
I was having blood taken on Tuesday in london, still haven't changed my government ID, but on my requisition form it has my chosen name. So I give my legal name for the paper work and dont even talk about my preferred name. When I was called up, they used my chosen name, and it shocked me!
It's not hard for people to be kind, but usually they just aim for nice
2026-03-12 15:57:33
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🌈Nurse Kylie 🇦🇺 :
Ok, I know it’s not easy but… correct them. Many of us are still learning. I’ve learnt so much from you. In a kind, gentle way that inspires me to try harder to be welcoming. Now I’m so comfortable with the idea. I’m so much more compassionate towards non binary and trans people. You made me a better person ♥️you can improve them too
2026-03-12 17:05:07
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🇨🇦 Conni.xo🌻 :
I made a mistake last week and I was corrected and I was so thankful for that, but I absolutely felt terrible for making the mistake. They said they were not upset and I hope that’s true.
2026-03-16 02:17:49
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kayjaygeeee :
Having a last name that I have to correct 50% of the time, speaking up is automatic to me. You are your own best advocate, correct them and take back your power. Be polite but be firm. “My name is Jaye, thanks.”
2026-03-12 16:03:08
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Luci :
Oh gosh that sucks, I’m sorry that happened.
2026-03-13 13:56:27
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Betty :
Sorry you had to deal with that. You’re blazing the trails. Sending you good vibes, strength and kind energy.
2026-03-15 18:50:29
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monicamanock :
It’s sad, a legal name change takes upwards of 6 months, when it comes to any healthcare things for my son he’s always dead named because his healthcard is his legal name - it’s very frustrating
2026-03-13 02:35:19
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hq41 :
I am sorry you experienced that. People should just accept people. Period. Be you. You're perfect just as you are 🫶
2026-03-12 23:15:47
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QueenieB :
It’s exhausting!! Sorry you had that experience. 💜💜
2026-03-13 01:16:48
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lauraldawn :
One of the things that has helped my daughter in her transition is I did a ton of the name change stuff for her. And I called ahead or spoke with places like the dentist so she didn’t have to deal with it. (She’s 21). Being dead named makes her really upset. Maybe there’s someone (a parent?) who could do this for you? Not because you can’t but just to be kind ♥️the other day mail came for her in her deadname. (Junk mail). I immediately sharpied it out.
2026-03-15 11:53:37
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ali lovell :
I'm sorry that happened to you.
2026-03-14 01:59:40
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Noelleleahh :
I deleted my own comment when I was trying to respond but yes I agree !!
2026-03-12 16:50:19
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JRG 🍉🇵🇸 :
That SUCKS! 😣
2026-03-12 18:37:16
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Anne💫Awakening🌟we are 0ne🌍 :
Glendale dental is awesome
2026-03-12 19:23:00
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Beanz :
urgh, people are so rude. Im sorry babe. You deserve better. 🌸
2026-03-12 16:23:14
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jj :
I hate to hear you have to go through this. my kiddo here in Australia has had nothing but support and acceptance from drs and dentists and everyone really in accepting her new name and pronouns. stay strong ❤️
2026-03-12 15:27:02
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Lyn Boswell :
How stressful that must be 😩
2026-03-13 03:53:41
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Jocelyn B :
Getting new requisitions with all the details should make a difference since returning it’s based on old paperwork from original documents
2026-03-12 19:37:51
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Joannemac :
That’s horrible, I’m so sorry this happened to you 🥺
2026-03-12 15:41:32
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fabi🇨🇦 :
I think detaching from what is happening to you is a very good trauma response?? Because it was very traumatic and triggering. I'm sorry that happened.🥰
2026-03-13 22:44:45
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doomnoodle 🇨🇦 🇺🇦 :
I'm pretty laissez faire about pronouns, I only correct when I get ma'am bombed, but even that gets some of them in a tizzy. It's so upsetting to them.
2026-03-12 16:09:42
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𝒮𝒶𝓇𝒶 🇨🇦 ❯❯❯❯ :
Oh no that looks like martindale dentistry - who was mean tell me rn!!
2026-03-15 04:17:30
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Frankie-Lou :
Where is this office, I just want talk them, ..... Don't let those people bring you down, my beloved passed Stepmom was a dentist, and she would never have treated you like that. I think it's time to find a new dentist
2026-03-12 16:21:25
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aimers369 :
That’s shitty I’m sorry! Don’t let people take your self identity or self power!
2026-03-12 15:32:18
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