@relationshipswithaly: There’s a difference between listening to the words and really hearing your partner. And the difference matters. Really hearing your partner is about wanting to understand their experience, feeling empathetic to the impact it has on them, and taking action to change the behavior that is hurting them. Anyone can listen to words, but in deep partnerships, you feel truly heard. In my four step program, the TALK Blueprint, I teach you exactly how to communicate in a way that takes you from listening to understanding to connection. Head to the link in my bio for the link my free class: The Communication Reset, where you can get started. Disclaimer: Social Media is not therapy. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. This content is not personally about the creator. THIS WILL NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE.
Relationships With Aly
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Thursday 12 March 2026 16:03:59 GMT
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stuffbycats :
“I may mess it up sometimes” Ok so like that’s why I’ve had to ask multiple times?
2026-03-12 18:30:23
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TalkConfidentlyFrank :
The tone we use determines whether people “hear” what we say. If they receive it as an accusation or an attack, they brace. If we present our concerns with respect and love, their guard goes down—and real progress happens.
2026-03-12 16:40:33
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Andrea 💫 :
I say that too but the change still doesn’t come
2026-03-20 01:55:00
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norris :
yeah this is what we men need. we need to know how something will impact you. how it will change things for you. how you feel if we do it. or if we dont and so on to actually understand
2026-03-12 20:44:36
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nymphadorasmother 🧁 :
I will never understand why a partner asking for something to change isn’t enough. Like why does she need to explain the impact so he understands? She wouldn’t bring it up if it didn’t bother her, you don’t have to personally have the same issue to understand it impacts her.
2026-03-13 11:39:25
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Holly Evergreen :
you hear the words that I'm saying and deal with them as an option you get to disregard. as opposed to a command that in order for this house to function you need to obey
2026-04-21 19:31:21
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toastedSloth :
I guess just everyone in these comments is done with their personal growth journeys, huh?
2026-03-12 19:03:25
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🧿Deb🧿 :
40 years of this….. no change
2026-03-12 22:50:48
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Nammpz :
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2026-05-01 22:49:15
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