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Mini Muffinx3 :

I stay texting first I don’t care 🤣.

pilialaska :

Just do what your heart tells you, love is a lottery, if you don't take the chance, you will never know if you will ever win.✌

Jessica :

I stopped listening to this advice, and started taking emotional risks. I felt like I wanted to vomit every single time. He is now my boyfriend, and told me that he had avoidant walls up about not wanting to get close to somebody, and that me being vulnerable and being very open about how much I want him made him feel like this connection was worth opening up to.

Trail mix :

I don’t care what anyone says, If I wanna text, I will text. My life doesn’t have to be perfect, I like what and how I am.

sarahjewelmorgan :

ARG 🔮 :

I did the nonchalant thing for a while, he pulled away, now I follow my gut and have reached out several times and he responded immediately and everything has been going smoothly, all because I swallowed my pride & followed my intuition, he respects me already so I don’t have anything to proof & im not begging or chasing simply showing him I care & my intentions are good

Peony Lane Co. |A Curated Life :

I ignored my friends advise. I text him that I was thinking of him and just wanted to see him. This man drove 35 minutes to see me for 15 minutes just to turn around and drive 45 minutes to make a meeting. He said it was the best part of his day.

🎀 :

life is too short to not live authentically to how you feel

Paige Satterfield :

If you want love be loving.

ivana :

as an anxious girly i realised texting MEANINGFULY (when i really want to express myself) made me less of an anxious attached person. thank u fr

❄️ #BRINGBACKVALKO :

i need a debate about this lol

Tatum :

I want it to be neutral. I don’t want to feeel like I’m pursuing him more than he’s pursuing me

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Damn ok this was helpful

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The Pullback Effect by Marcus Veyne is lowkey the best book on this topic. I went from feeling powerless to being in full control. She is begging to talk now, but now is too late!

✧𝓡𝓲𝓽𝓪 ✧ :

chat is this the sign

kat !!!!!!!! :

I’ll text first but ur actions and behaviour will allow me to understand how to act accordingly. I’m open and warm, but I do not reward behaviour that does not align with my expansion

Hey, hola… soy Tania 👋🏻🇲🇽 :

I honestly think that 99% of “friendly advice” is not about you, it’s about the person giving it, and their experiences and their triggers. Listen to your own instincts🙏🏻

Moshi :

It's so refreshing watching your content..amongst others who keeps telling us to not care and stay tough. It's difficult when we truly have feelings and pretending like we don't

mymyhighfrequency :

Those advices used to reassure me so much, because it allowed me to stay in my comfort zone while keeping this posture of someone who never makes the first move and waits. I would listen to that all day to keep me out of the guilt

KathrynAnn 1 :

I dont play games, i enjoy texting and initiating conversations sometimes. if that doesnt resonate with whoever it is, then that is my sign that it isnt right.

Rio :

I love your advice bc its rooted in connection and love. All the other advice Ive seen is rooted in disconnection, division, selfishness, etc. and being “hard to get” and selfish has gotten me nowhere 😭

Sleep :

Best advice: If you feel insecure about something, tell the other person in a calm demeanor.

Incognito :

bruh it be my own chatgpt telling me to not text first and let him lean in

dgidahvz | beauty editor ✨ :

this is really impactful advice. people act like communication is one size fits all and it’s not!

mawi :

I was texting him first. Now he’s texting me first. We’re together.