Umai :
This is so reallll. I'm an ENFP and I've been close to both INTJ and INFJ men in my life. And they are very different, for the INTJ guy,He is the senior I have a crush on. I was the one who approached and sent the message first. Well actually he is nice, the type of person who is very suitable to be invited to discuss, it's just that we didn't end up together, I don't know, maybe we're not compatible. Whereas when I tried with an INFJ man, oh god... I couldn't have asked for a more calming, beautiful and very understanding relationship.Absolutely the definition of a healthy relationship. He is a guy who used to live in my neighborhood. I tried to approach him. Our chat was really enjoyable, every time we spent it was as if we were entering our own fantasy world.We can discuss anything Some of my friends say we are a little crazy, because our conversations are very intense, full of fantasy, full of long sentences that are confusing for them.But I really enjoyed it, really enjoyed every second of it. He is always understanding and respectful of me, and he really values relationships and the meaning of relationships themselves.Sometimes he needs time to be alone for quite a long time.But you know what?Even though he disappeared for a while, he didn't leave me feeling abandoned. Idk how, his actions makes me believe he will always come back.
I also have some cf who are INFJs, and they're so nice as friends—the perfect definition of a ideal friend and ideal partner. I love them so much.
I love intj's too (bcs I also have intj cf), but I think when it comes to romantic relationships I would be happier with an infj guy.
2026-03-16 11:13:48