@guardian: From the secret to good pastry to giving yourself permission to wear shimmery pink shoes, this Mother’s Day, Guardian writers reflect on the best advice they’ve received from their mums. For some, Mother’s Day can be a painful reminder of profound loss. For others, it can be a time to reflect on more positive relationships with their mothers – no matter how complex they are. Swipe to read our writers’ tributes to their mums, and a selection of maternal words to live by.