Elly | Counseling Psychologist
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Purplestars :
People pleasing is a form of manipulation and is far FAR more damaging and gaslighting than direct conflict is. People pleasing serves no one and leads to deep resentment to other people
2026-03-15 00:12:25
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Christine :
100%. I'm terrified of other people's reaction.
2026-03-14 19:00:42
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Toby Francis :
people pleasing is too avoid loneliness 😊
2026-03-16 01:03:16
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DorotyOczami :
It’s actually wanting for people to not to want anything from us
2026-03-14 22:53:39
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Alisa Brunetti Mukai :
Yepppp and when I finally set boundaries and expressed myself as an adult, my sister went no contact on me 🫠🫠🫠 But healing continues!!
2026-03-14 15:26:04
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sofiapanagiotou11 :
It's fear
2026-04-28 11:38:12
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user433335225201 :
I spent my life being a family pleaser only to be betrayed and discarded once they bettered their situation with my help, so be warned.
2026-03-15 00:32:47
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aleksandra :
I should be so much of a people pleaser looking at my parents and their reactions etc. But as an eldest daughter aswell, I am more of the "speak up" kind of person, as I just think in my head that many people are fake and pretending anyways, so I am usually not scared to "lose" anyone besides my siblings and bf. Which might also not be a great thing
2026-03-16 05:18:02
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xochimilcoco :
not to keep them close, more to keep them away to finally be alone and in peace once all the demands of others are fulfilled.
2026-03-16 03:49:08
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jasonwlevy :
So right ….
2026-05-05 07:10:06
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Heyaokbye :
But tbh constant conflicts because it’s your needs vs someone else’s needs are so tiring too. And who is to decide whose needs are more important?
2026-03-14 21:50:31
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healing_heart :
fear of getting harm , takimg criticise or just not being hurt .. its mostly for me to save myself and not to get into conflict then .
2026-05-10 23:42:18
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Sprachpapagei :
True.
2026-04-29 19:34:01
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Kay Moat :
I agree with this. true for me
2026-05-01 06:39:34
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Jesus Alberto :
Agree 🙏
2026-03-14 17:52:28
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Edi :
Yes
2026-03-14 08:11:36
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Wendy Moffat :
🥰🥰🥰💓💓💓👍👍👍yep
2026-03-13 23:47:37
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Jo :
, 💯 love your content ❤️
2026-05-13 19:24:12
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BrownEyez 🇧🇪 :
True
2026-05-07 03:24:22
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Sharon Jane :
Absolutely 💯 this is me
2026-05-05 20:15:22
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kez ❌ :
So true , I’m trying to unlearn but it’s so hard .
2026-04-28 10:11:21
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HelenLD :
Me 😢
2026-04-27 19:45:45
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TheDonG :
you are right
2026-04-26 05:36:11
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Sky :
whatever🥺
2026-03-14 20:09:04
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