@i_need_to_sleep5: It's like a form of manipulation, When someone lacks love and attention for too long, a sudden influx of care and understanding,their brain like been reset, creating the illusion that they are loved and that their parents have changed, didn't realize they were gradually getting used to being "loved" and becoming dependent on them,so sometimes their change doesn't necessarily mean they realize they were wrong; it could just be that they're trying to control you in a different way. #viral #artist #parents #children #funfact

고구마 :

Nah, they usually use it against me later🥀

Zenith :

I had the same past, but now that they are more calm and gentler its now me who cant accept it, like there is still a feeling that makes me reject them.

wasabi :

tbh them becoming gentle feel so uncomfortable and can't remove all those things they did to me

yamacraw :

This isn’t fun anymore

˜”*°•mingdoodles•°*”˜ :

wait….. i think your on to smt

✟《Halfwitted Salad of Genes》✟ :

Woah, that's hitting little too close to home.

_ADOHIRA_ :

It's a constant circle only way to survive is use the "sweetness" to your advantage and keep walls up until you can leave

StaticTime Hail :

My mom was kinda like that, Luke she stopped being strict and stuff when I became a teen because I could handle my own stuff really, personally for me though, it just wnde dup with me being nice or rude to people who meet me first then being kinda rude but still somewhat nice (think of a tsundere type of deal, no idea how else to describe it lol), plus a bit of a temper too and being easily intimated at things that bother me but not saying it sometimes until I explode

꧁ 𝓨𝓾𝓴𝓲 ꧂ :

Unfortunately it’s too late now. Whenever Im on vacations in my grandma’s house or even at school, I can’t think and I avoid thinking about my parents. It just makes me feel so bad. Even trough they are now nicer. I still imagine them same as I saw them when I was younger.

ganked :

im that kid but I dont talk to him anymore

Love_Mason :

the parents and their son

Credy (flashlight era) :

I don't like this fun fact can we get a different one

Strwberry♫୧₍˄·͈༝·͈˄₎୨ :

Whew thank god that i don’t think my mom will ever change

Run_12 :

i see a fact but where the fun

Xenolady :

oh so it's not genuine...

dekiz65 :

not very fun at all

VANITAS :

had the same environment, you trust them but, the kindness feels hollow. that made me a perceptive person, always scanning for wrong, and trying to correct them.

Natsuori | ~Writer~ :

My mom was basically like that after 2 years ago where she turned the dial down a bit and honestly I just get disgusted for every nice thing she tries to do-

𝐽𝐴𝑍𝑍 愛 :

Love_Mason :

"tell me,how i me, without using me"

SWIRL!!☆°~||🐠🦸‍♂️ :

mine was the opposite☹️they knew I would become a lying child so they started off nice then started always yelling

toby🕷️ :

ok so why are you describing the last few months

°•♡sayori♡•° :

never happen in my life just getting punished and scolded

🪤 —🐁—🐈-🐈‍⬛—🐕-🐩 :

I’m never going to be fixed, the damages were already done, they now made a new person than the one who acts like the names they’ve called me.

ʚ𝙼𝚒𝚕𝚞𝚗𝚎ᰔᩚɞ :

or the child will do everything for the sake of the parent just to feel that love over and over again, because they're afraid the old version of their parent might come back