@bloohm.co: Controversial hot take; Now, these aren’t “extreme” or unheard-of, they’re pretty standard for couples prioritizing their vision, budget, environment, and privacy. The “hate” often comes from guests who feel inconvenienced or entitled to do things their way, but it’s your wedding, so boundaries like these are valid. ❤️ The guests literally HATED these ‘controversial’ rules at the wedding… but are they actually that bad? Let’s break them down. Spoiler: They’re not extreme they’re just smart. 1. No kids: No kids allowed. Guests were like…. Look, we all love kids… but when wanting an adult vibe dancing till 2 a.m., open bar flowing, no chaos. In 2026, tons of couples do this. It’s about your vision. If childcare’s an issue, that’s valid but it’s still your day. 2. No plus-ones: Most kept it intimate, budget-friendly, and venue-sized. Friends? Come solo and mingle! It’s not rude, it’s practical. Etiquette says: If it’s not on the invite, it’s not assumed. Boundaries! Is a beautiful thing to have for people you care about. ❤️ 3. Don’t post photos before they can: No posting till they do.
Big one: Don’t post pics on socials before they share theirs. Respect the privacy. We don’t want Aunt spoiling the first look with a blurry iPhone shot. Totally reasonable in today’s world, wait for the pros or the official drop, it’s basic courtesy. 4. QR code shared album (POV App style) instead of disposables: Scan this QR instead of disposables: Banning, disposable cameras, expensive, wasteful, half get lost or trashed in landfills. Instead: Scan a QR code, snap away on your phone like a digital disposable, and boom all pics land in one shared album instantly. Eco-friendly, free candids from every angle, no chasing people later. Its fun once they try it… and it will give hundreds of photos without the mess! What do YOU think? Are these rules fair game or too much? #wedding #pov #hottake

🍭Vixxie💫 :

“Controversial rules” And it’s just boundaries

Mrpokemon88 ♊️ :

All of these rules are reasonable because it’s there wedding by the way

road warrior :

wouldn't even show up to that wedding

Brooke :

These are fair! I wouldn’t give them grief at all. I wouldn’t go without my plus one, but I kindly RSVP no.

Angel_1t_1s :

No plus one is crazy.

Dark_Princess :

Dad3kidz :

If I got an invitation to a wedding with a rules list I would kindly just say no thank you.

MTSunshine :

I feel like it’s the attitude not the boundaries

Dante The Inferno :

My thoughts and prayers are with your husband

#1 Dragalge Fan :

I mean… it’s her wedding. She can do whatever she wants with it.

luzicolt :

I agree with all of the rules. Why would you need a plus one anyway? If the couple knows and likes your partner, they will probably get their own invite anyway.

Galaxygloop :

Those are all completely reasonable rules

IfyouknowYouknow :

weddings are the worst I always love a good excuse not to attend

Sebastian :

You seem like a joy

Sora :

None are controversial, pretty reasonable really

froglady :

these "hot take" vids are just clickbait for undisclosed ads 🫪

Tina Soltysik Adcock :

No plus one. Wouldn’t go

Bruh :

How are these controversial?

I like food😀👍 :

this is normal boundaries off a wedding

Exhausted&fedup 🆘🇺🇸 :

Yep, your wedding, your rules. But, don’t be upset when a lot of people don’t show up.

mariagonzalez24250 :

It might be reasonable but you are not very nice explaining them

★•~{KAI}~•★ :

Is ts a Ad!?😭

Leanne neale :

A wedding with no children is boring.

Nick :

thats reasonable

꒰ঌ🤍໒꒱ ˚₊livia ₊˚ෆ :

Okay! I like it so far