@icedamerikano7: The betrayal didn’t only come from him. It also came from the friends who knew the truth but kept smiling in my face. I never tolerated cheating. I never wanted to be the other girl. The moment I found out the truth, I walked away. #fyp #cheating #cheater #exposed
Recently I found out that I was the other girl. We had been dating for months. He treated me well, and I had no idea he was doing something behind my back. I even met his friends, we had dinners, dates, and bonding moments. They were nice to me. But later I found out they all knew he had a girlfriend. They even hung out with her too. They knew I was being lied to, but none of them said a word.
When I discovered the truth, my only goal was to tell the girlfriend because she deserved to know. Of course he denied me and said I was nothing but honestly, that didn’t matter to me anymore.
I never confronted him about why he cheated. He doesn’t deserve that energy.
What hurts the most right now isn’t just him it’s the people who smiled at me, bonded with me, and watched me get lied to… while saying nothing.
2026-03-14 14:41:42
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cc.lilies :
Please run! I wasn’t able to run, now I am suffering.
2026-03-14 12:05:41
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⋆. 𐙚˚࿔ 𝐚𝐳𝐜𝐞 𝜗𝜚˚⋆ :
Being the girl who gets cheated on and being the other girl without even knowing is the same level of pain. I’ve been in both situations, and at this point, I feel like I’m not valuable enough to be respected.
2026-04-05 10:20:26
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Kierrah Zhesh :
Same, and it hurts so much when the girl chatted me na 7 years na sila and we're just 2 months dating. I understand her naman saying those hurtful words pero how can we defend ourselves if nasa situation tayo na tayo ang sinisisi, kaso victim lang naman din tayo sa kasinungalingan. Yes iba yung nakikipagrelasyon kahit alam nila may someone, kaso tayo walang kamalay malay💔. Na trauma ako honestly, I hate someone who ruin's someone's relationship, but I became one unintentionally😭
2026-03-14 17:23:40
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💜 :
This is why, I dont judge easily whenever I see a "cheating issues" because there's always "other girl" who didnt know they are the other girl.
2026-03-19 01:15:17
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chookstowhere :
waah! this triggered something in me, coz same! like the shaking and all after finding things out, that u became the other girl without knowing😖
2026-03-14 17:46:11
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¹¹Ava :
waked away with dignity intact.go girl👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💪🏻
2026-03-14 08:15:30
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J• :
It hurts...but realizing you were unknowingly involved as “the other person” can bring a mix of anger, guilt & betrayal. None of that is easy. The responsibility lies with the person who lied. He created the situation. Feeling bad shows your values...but don’t carry blame that isn’t yours. The fact that you say you swore you'd never knowingly be the other girl means you have clear boundaries & respect for other people’s relationships. Experiences like this can make people cynical or guarded. ✨🥺🤍
2026-03-17 02:52:21
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Francine Dava :
ako ang niloko pero ako ang nagpaubaya kahit pa magkaka anak kami hinayaan ko sya sa babae nya, mahalaga nalang sakin ay ang peace of mind ko pati ang baby ko.
2026-03-14 13:18:54
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dia :
wow universal experience
2026-05-01 18:17:42
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i have no one left, khem :
this. i was so guilty, and felt so sorry for myself bcs i didn’t deserve that
2026-03-16 02:11:27
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💜ᗷTS⟭⟬💜 💜🅐🅡🅜🅨⁷⟬⟭💜🇵🇭 :
Ganto sana hindi yung magmamayabang pa na mas higit sya kasi sya yung pinili.. sending hugs gurl you deserve better..
2026-03-16 04:28:27
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danyka. :
recently found out may livein partner siya and may anak sila. Nahimatay ako talaga nung nalaman ko lahat 💔😭
2026-04-21 04:22:03
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caramel_macchiato :
kahit ilang months or taon na ang nakalipas minumulto pa rin ako ng pangyayari na hindi ko naman aakalain
2026-03-19 01:28:15
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Rochelle🖤 :
That's why I never got angry and blame his other girl since she doesn't know that he is in a relationship that time. Instead I vent out my anger at him.
2026-03-15 07:21:39
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kat :
what you did because you didn’t know was never your fault. it’s what you did after finding out the truth that really matters. i hope you find peace in knowing you never tolerated cheating and heal from this experience.
2026-03-15 23:23:19
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icedamerikano7 :
Hi guys, I’ve read all of your comments and I know a lot of you are carrying so much pain. But always remember you don’t deserve to stay in that pain forever. Don’t let pain become your normal.
Love yourselves enough to know that even if you go through situations like this, you can still stand up again, heal, and continue moving forward. 🤍
2026-05-10 02:12:45
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𝙖𝙠𝙞𝙢 ⭑ :
shet, should i tell it to girl na may nangyari samin?
2026-03-14 17:26:53
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aji 🧿🪬 :
sakit din maging other girl eh :(((
2026-03-14 22:27:20
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fcknmona :
to all the women who went through the same shit, ik this situation isn’t something u chose or even saw coming, sometimes people js get caught in stories they didn’t write, and it doesn’t make them any less genuine or deserving of respect and love, bc it’s not a reflection of ur worth or ur heart. u didn’t set out to hurt anyone babe, u simply loved, and that’s never something to be ashamed of. be gentle with urself rn, ik confusion and guilt can feel heavy, but they don’t define who u are. what matters is how u move forward with honesty and kindness, both to others and to urself. u still deserve peace, clarity, and a love that doesn’t place u in the shadows. u didn't do anything wrong babe! so stop blaming urself. u deserve better!
2026-03-31 17:46:22
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Regina🪽 :
not your fault babe🫂
2026-04-22 06:57:31
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Prince Reese | Proud JL stan ✨ :
Love people with self-awareness! Let's not normalize cheating. Let's normalize walking out from cheating.
2026-03-15 09:45:10
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trian 💭 :
girl sameeee. he told me he broke up with his gf of 4 years 9 months ago only to find out i was a sidechick all those time and now it's been 5 months of trying to move on but i still feel like shit. the guilt of unknowingly hurting his girl makes me sick.
2026-03-17 01:03:12
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princesstarot :
girl i know you hurt, but thankyou you are still saving the other girl😭😭😭💗💗💞💓
2026-03-16 20:57:12
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