Vanessa Van Edwards is GREAT for this. She calls herself a “recovering awkward person.”
2026-03-23 21:57:40
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Allyson Handsbury :
Getting a customer service job literally as soon as you can work. We need the structure and hands on learning.
2026-03-26 19:18:27
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Amber :
im autistic and in sales.. let me tell you somethin✨
2026-03-27 13:59:09
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bjorne :
my hyper fixation is social skills
2026-03-27 23:11:09
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Stephania Messina :
As a late diagnosed AUDHDer my charisma has been a lifelong saving grace
2026-03-26 01:55:40
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yourfavtrainer1 :
It’s meeeeee. “You have such a great personality!” (Girl I’m masking so hardddddd and I’m so tired RN)
2026-03-14 13:23:45
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user7844860317854 :
Started working as a barista at 18 and the amount of social data I was able to collect, the amount of PRACTICE I got with starting conversations, making small talk etc., genuinely changed my life
2026-03-16 15:44:56
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ijustaskedjosten :
Everyone is bestie until otherwise stated. Always give one compliment, it helps with friendly vibes. Be a journalist about their lives, like ask questions and match whatever expression they are making. remeber people, and if they bring something up that they have told you, you can state one thing that you remeber about it in a nonchalant way but not more because then it’s creepy. Be honest but like vague honest. That’s all I can think of right now. I’m charismatic to a fault and now everyone thinks I’m extroverted but I’m really just masking. also do a social job atleast once because it helps with learning how to interact with complete strangers. Also get a extremely social friend and just learn what they are doing
2026-03-27 12:00:58
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Beep boop :
My charisma is completely sporadic though lmao, the vibes have to be juuuuust right.
2026-03-14 13:24:03
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Hopeymonsters :
I only got charisma by maximizing my empathy stat. This is gonna sound weird but in my brain I see myself as a hybrid of Barbie and Spiderman- being kind for nothing in return and developing a love of humanity by trying to uplift others or just practicing altruism more frequently helped me become more charismatic.
2026-03-27 00:28:06
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Basil :
being friendly, caring about others, being easy to approach, asking how someone's day was, it's the little things!!
2026-03-26 00:55:53
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Ella :
I can read the vibe but I can’t think of stuff to say
me at 15 buying a vintage etiquette book bc clearly there were rules i didn't know about 😭😭😭
2026-03-26 21:47:23
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crisp :
Am a charismatic autistic woman, late diagnosed. It’s really about self confidence, paying attention to what people are saying, using the pattern recognition to be quick in meaningful ways, and BEING GENUINELY KIND.
2026-03-30 08:49:25
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tacticat_ :
Ask people questions! And be genuinely interested in and engage with their answers. People tend to like me and I swear it’s just because I ask them about themselves and I might engage in some super lighthearted teasing if the vibe is correct lol
2026-03-28 15:48:53
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Emma Cruscat de Palausabulla :
I remember the day I decided at 14 that I was going to be funny. I’m a personality hire now, it got out of hand 😂
2026-03-14 13:33:36
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u just blow in frm stupidtown? :
unfortunately i only have charisma when i’m drunk
2026-03-26 03:51:34
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Francesca :
I sometimes have golden charisma, then I can’t speak for days! Thanks for seeing us 🥰
2026-05-01 13:44:03
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Russell :
I didn’t talk until I was like 8, yet here I am a bartender in NYC for 10, years. This is my special interest
2026-03-25 23:48:42
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AER :
Meeeee 😭 my charisma has skyrocketed as I’ve learned to unmask. I’ve just learned to embrace when I’m excited/passionate about something, it comes off as so refreshing and authentic (bc it is) and people are so willing to go out of their way to help me!
2026-03-26 02:54:55
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ᵗ ʰ ᵉ ᵘ ⁿ~ᵖ ʳ ᵒ ᶠ ᵉ ˢ ˢ ᵒ ʳ :
Oooh, this is me! I special interested communication and social interactions (psychology, body language, theatre) and learned them manually so I know exactly why people do things and like things and why some interactions work and others don't!
2026-03-25 17:54:53
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charisma :
my name is charisma and I’m autistic
2026-04-28 23:06:45
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notsharkboi :
Hi! Dats me
2026-03-25 10:46:34
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Tano :
Omg I literally studied how to be charismatic and got so overwhelmed with how popular I became. I just hide in my apartment now and ignore everyone’s texts
2026-04-28 08:28:52
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