@mackenzieherman: Week one doesn’t look like heartbreak for the avoidant, it looks like relief. #avoidantattachmentstyle #dismissiveavoidant #breakup #fearfulavoidantattachment #attachmentstyle
Been 3 weeks and still can’t sleep, eat, or be happy. Life is miserable
2026-03-20 00:23:37
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🎧😇 :
4 weeks no contact.. it hurts bad. Tempted to send a message but I need to be strong and wait for her to initiate first. If not, she’s gone for good…. ☹️😕😞☹️😕🥺
2026-03-15 00:02:42
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Freja🌸📚📖 :
its almost been 2 days, and this is fucking terrible. I got a headache from crying
2026-04-09 15:45:09
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Account not found :
Day 1, first time getting dehydrated by tears
2026-04-03 10:41:22
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rayanetmila :
Week one over here …. I’m slowly dying you guys. This sucks.
2026-04-29 05:13:16
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Fujoshi :
after leaving my avoidant I feel I can breath too
2026-03-15 19:17:07
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MariPatron :
We broke up on monday.. year wasted.. wanted to propose on our anniversery man.. But now i see God said it wasnt my time and lost the loml but gotta continue.. Cant be sad my whole life.. Still i want her back so much
2026-03-15 11:10:54
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Marie :
the pain is like a death i cant cope
2026-04-04 14:15:32
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HAILE | Attachment Coach :
This explanation is so validating. That ‘relief’ phase they’re in right now? It’s their nervous system finally breathing, not proof the love wasn’t real. It just means the pressure lifted for them. But you feeling the weight? That’s real too 🤍 Give yourself permission to feel it all without comparing timelines. Your healing doesn’t wait for theirs. You’ve got this, one grounded breath at a time 🌿
2026-03-21 03:00:43
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Anthony Thomas Miles :
happy to know im not an avoidant, I've been riding waves up and down 4 days going on 5, and still searching for answers and ways to grow and understand how to be better
2026-03-15 08:55:04
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Quoya 🌹 :
Im only on day 3 and im currently dying
2026-04-24 14:25:55
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jiafromheaven :
Day 1, feel like I’m dying chat
2026-05-05 05:11:38
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Alyssia Denneboom :
It’s comforting to read this and know I’m not the only one going through so much pain right now… though I wouldn’t wish this pain on anyone.
2026-04-07 10:44:05
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˚.⋆: ༘dti♡ ⋆。☁️❤️☁️ :
A lot of people think breakups are just about emotions, but The Forbidden Codex of Influence by Julian Voss shows there is way more psychology behind it.
2026-03-24 16:27:31
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Brooklee :
Mine was looking for my replacement same day, or probably before it was even over.
2026-03-28 13:37:00
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Torie Kuhs :
3 days after the breakup, questioning if they actually miss me
2026-04-18 12:31:39
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🌻Elizma🌻 :
my boyfriend chose going out with friends and not coming home over me. after months of pleading, i gave up. now we don't have any contact anymore and it's driving me crazy. cos why do i feel like he doesn't care enough to change or fight for me? i really thought he was THE ONE. now I'm broken and stuck in the silence. i want answers, but haven't gotten any closure. it's killing me inside.
2026-03-25 15:40:32
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Meechhy :
Hell nah I miss my girl every single day
2026-03-18 01:20:56
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FloRiver :
Day 5 and he is so cold with me. I definitely believe that he feels relieved and that he is vindicated in discarding me. I’m trying to stay no contact and give him the space he craves. I hope he comes back on his own, but I’m preparing myself in case he never does. I’m destroyed.
2026-04-17 14:44:17
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bdmckinley :
Day 3. Far from okay. Just taking it hour by hour.
2026-04-29 16:13:58
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Eric White :
On day 12, we dated for 11 months, she blocked me on phone calls, emails and social media. I’m just existing, can’t sleep or eat, and it’s a fight every day to motivate myself to do anything! I’m ashamed of myself.
2026-03-18 01:33:51
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Tactical Potato :
I've been dating them for 4 years. There was a lot going on, ups downs, fights. Yet I never thought he'd leave. We live together, now I need to find a place to live with my cats. All because he thought I wasn't trying hard enough. There is a whole lot more, like so so much more.
2026-03-20 23:46:16
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Promise SAINT :
24 hours and I'm losing my mind
2026-04-07 12:24:28
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