xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Saturday 14 March 2026 22:27:45 GMT
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BeefyChurro :
Saving this video so I can let you guys know the result. Been together for 4 years, I was her first true love and she was mine. We’re nearing our 30’s now. I never cheated, yelled, or disrespected her but my behavioral patterns and anxious attachment style was something that made her anxious I did start some arguments at the wrong times (family parties). Which is why she ended it. It’s been over a month but she told me she still loves and cares about me. I do too. I left the door open for her to reach out whenever she feels she’s ready but I miss her everyday and I wanna reach out to her so bad on some days
2026-04-04 18:14:58
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JuanCruz55 :
By honoring their space, does that mean they have to reach out first because only she can define how long that is, but I can’t tell if we can’t communicate. So wait for her?
2026-03-15 00:47:22
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MoMo :
His fyp, not mine
2026-03-14 23:01:34
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cruzmontoya57 :
What if there are kids involved? Do you just not reach out even about the kids?
2026-05-19 13:09:33
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dutchvandervader :
Ummmmm they won’t even care about any of this if they aren’t the burnt out pursuer. The other party does not care about losing their pursuer at all. it’s heartbreaking but tru.
2026-05-05 07:34:53
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Azazel :
That’s only if you feel like the relationship is worth it and that the burn out mostly happened because of you. Personally I couldn’t leave more than a couple weeks or so of space, because I also respect myself not to be in a position of uncertainty for so long. Space is important but not everything is 1 sided - you have to explain your side of the story, show improvement and patience, but not let that one person dictate everything because they’re hurt — because you’re hurt and deserve stability too. A relationship , even ending , even with a burnout , works only if the 2 people still show love and respect — within their abilities and limits when the burnout is strong, obviously. But let’s not make it a 1 sided issue that needs to be respected forever — that isn’t respectful to the second partner either
2026-05-13 14:35:28
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Alyssa💜 :
what about giving them a letter and allow them to read and respond it on their own time
2026-04-09 11:49:26
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Cadence 💟 :
As someone who was left because I think she was burnout. U don’t recommend me reaching out. That’s on them right. Like respect that space until they are ready?
2026-03-15 00:46:53
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dj crazy head :
this resonates with me so much. he left but left it on a note of "im not giving up on you" and gave me a hug. it gave me mixed messages so hopefully we can try again in the future but I absolutely need to work on myself. I love him so much. but I understand what I did wrong.
2026-04-06 02:15:34
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Shannon :
yeah, I would definitely need the emotional safety... and honestly idk if he wants me back. It feels like he never really made an effort to be emotionally close to me, or treat me like an equal in the first place... I still love him, but I don't really miss the relationship 😬 -- signed a burnt out persuer
2026-04-08 03:05:11
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naomivanrooyen87 :
I was the one asking for years....now that I'm completely burned out, he wants to try to reconnect 😳
2026-03-16 10:17:15
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Vanessa Martinez :
3 weeks on issues with my husband, he is so confused on what to do stay or leave he said doesn’t feel in love with me anymore, after telling him every single option to work this and not answer I end it up telling to take a couple week of vacation without me , he left yesterday but how I approach with him again and see if he needs more time before talk about divorce?
2026-04-27 23:15:39
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Josh#506K :
How does a person quit trying to be close when you are attracted to the other person and next to them all the time? How does a person give space for months when living together?
2026-03-31 12:58:09
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lyndonl98 :
What if he never asked for space?? He’s dealing with his mental health and wanted a friend and said he couldn’t love me how i deserve right now.
2026-04-08 14:20:36
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lilliann :
Would love if you can go over ways to make them feel emotionally safe💕 this is great advice, TY!
2026-03-14 23:27:39
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Alex Graves :
What if we live together
2026-05-19 01:09:21
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Bean🌿 :
10 months ago he asked for a divorce. I asked for us to give it another try. Last week he asked for one again so now all I can do is accept this truth and respect his decision even though it’s killing me on the inside. He can’t move out for another few months so I’m not sure how to deal with this “giving him space” when we’ll have to continue to stay here together
2026-04-01 16:22:42
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JTon :
how do you give her space living together
2026-03-24 20:14:07
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David :
I’m a the point where I just get sent TikTok videos! Someone isn’t listening
2026-03-16 15:14:57
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Ivan der Speckliche :
➡️➡️➡️his FYP
2026-03-14 23:09:26
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Bilals702 :
She doesnt believe me that I can see clearly now and want to change things, and Wanst to See Proof, I can 100% unterstand that. how can I truly prove it to her?
2026-06-10 11:05:18
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fofo :
Thank you! I needed to hear this.
2026-05-07 08:09:12
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kimberly :
Thank you. This was the perspective I needed.
2026-04-22 01:15:55
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HiSonny :
Thank you for this
2026-04-29 04:53:11
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emma !! :
i’m waiting for him to come back, i reached out, i’m just waiting for a reply now. until then i’m going to try to heal myself and build myself to be the person he needs
2026-05-06 06:55:34
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