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Abi Shaw :
I feel like we rarely had arguments, it was just me having a go at him all the time and then him ignoring me or making me feel like I was the problem, making me feel guilty
2026-03-15 15:36:06
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CanSkyNy :
I carried the entire relationship I realized after. He never brought up anything.
2026-03-15 10:56:59
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Suzie Simmons :
Yes! We never had a single argument the entire year we were together
2026-03-15 16:36:07
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C.Y. Young :
The word avoidant is starting to be misused/overused
2026-03-16 01:09:21
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Rayane_bellazartes :
the first argument and he left
2026-03-15 21:11:08
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Hauwiiee :
Whole time they are building a RICO case against you and then you become the bad guy because they didn’t speak up 😭
2026-03-16 20:48:48
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WaterfallSunshine :
And then they tell you about something that bothered them eight months later and you’re like yeah you misunderstood that here’s what I meant and then he’s like oh really and I was like yeah and he’s like I spent the last eight months thinking about that I was like, yeah that’s why you ask questions…
2026-03-15 15:39:01
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Kirra :
They expect you to read their minds 😩
2026-03-16 06:29:19
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Michellemybelle :
Question , do avoidant show jealousy ? Mine never came close , almost in like a way I’d ask myself “do you even care about me “
2026-03-16 01:23:44
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scribblystuff :
I am this person I fear 😭 I physically can’t handle the idea of being ‘mean’ to my partner by setting a boundary (ex: I don’t want him to stay over) when he hasn’t set any himself and seems to be perfect and need no alone time, anyone have tips?
2026-03-16 15:59:10
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❤️Mellivy❤️ :
His chill attitude is how I got attached. I felt so safe
2026-04-30 10:54:14
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cle.jln :
I feel called out
2026-03-15 22:15:20
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a.veces.haikus :
Yes girl!! I found one of those, it was impossible to talk about anything serious with him. He always told me to "smile" and avoid all the negative things in life. He was incredible detached from the suffering around him
2026-03-15 13:59:34
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Sirozhene Pirozhene :
i feel like with every problem that we don't discuss (and those I don't even know about) is a brick. and he has been building a wall of those bricks. 10 years together, we never argue. but the wall between us is sooo tall already, that though we are "close", I'm scared we will never find a way to each other again
2026-03-17 12:23:58
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julian :
i used to be like this until i got fed up and started to learn to express my emotions 😭 it’s still hell but being resentful is so much worse worse
2026-03-17 13:12:38
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snipergangkodakk :
Oh so me
2026-03-15 16:48:50
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🐛Honniara🦋 :
Yes. So chill. So positive. Below the surface it was not that.
2026-05-06 01:21:04
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D :
SAME!!!! we never fought....then after 6 mnths of dating he broke up with while I was asleep...woke up to us not being together and me begging to find out why....never knew about advoidants until after and my therapist told me.....talk about whiplash
2026-03-15 16:29:15
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Mis_T :
Holy crap you just described my last relationship to the T
2026-03-15 06:03:37
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Anonymous 1111 :
13 years.. first love first relationship.. we never had fights. I had no idea until the discard and did my own research and trying to understand that I found out she was avoidant. Always promised we were ok.. wanted space.. we were ok still.. did not talk about anything. Boom we were over. Am still healing. It has been hell. And yet I still miss them. It is so messed up. Thank you for your video. I am sorry there are so many of us that have gone through this. I don’t even know what a normal relationship is supposed to look like.
2026-03-15 09:17:14
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みみ🪬 :
This. I always thought he was super chill. But then I’d hear from his friends or other people if he was jealous etc. and I was so surprised because he masked it so well.
2026-03-16 10:27:06
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victoria :
sounds like me in all my friendships.
2026-03-16 11:07:58
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Your Best Nightmare :
I always thought it was weird that we never had serious debates or arguments. Not because I wanted us to hurt eachother but because I knew deep down this was unrealistic. So I made it a thing to check in with him every few weeks, and HE KEPT REASSURING ME! And I have to take his word for it because I don’t want to come off as clingy and probably overthink and self sabotage the relationship.
2026-05-01 06:59:36
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teresamarieadams :
10 years and we’ve talked about nothing. He refused and I don’t know why I stayed
2026-03-16 07:53:29
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khloe_billionaire :
This is exactly what happened Word for Word. He’d always say everything is fine when I try and bring up meaningful discussions and then I felt like he broke up with me literally out of nowhere like it completely stunned me and then all of a sudden, even though I was regularly checking in with him when we split up, he had a plethora of all the reasons why he did even though he never communicated at once during the relationship, I had the audacity to say I wasn’t given him enough reassurance to yet he never spoke up. 😔🥹💔
2026-03-15 21:00:15
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