@petalsofemily: #Love #tips

pisces :

the first one already hit so hard, I’m gonna have to come back to read the rest

S :

do you write all these yourself? i love your posts and everything you write it actually is refreshing to me and encapsulates my thoughts in a way that i wouldn't be able to articulate myself. Thank you:)

🌸𝕯𝖊𝖘𝖙𝖎𝖓𝖞💮 :

"spent years trying to be so perfect that no one could justify leaving and in the process I left myself" 💔 that one hurt

lovers_paranoia1 :

It’s all very true. I’ve never had a consistent or long lasting relationship with anyone. My parents, not my siblings, teachers, “friends”. In the end…….I’ve never TRULY felt safe to be myself

Alexandersucala :

Surveillance is not connection is crazy

LovelyLerato :

Is this purpose journal app on App Store !? I wanna try it

Roxie Love :

This was beautifully written and I resonated with so many of the slides. It’s def an eye opener for sure 😭

Yasmeen <3 :

you articulate your thoughts so well! i find myself relating to points that i was never able to form into words myself. your mind is truly admirable! introspective and so honest 🤍

Just Chels✨ :

i love how articulate and accurate these are🔥

𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖗𝖑𝖊𝖞 ♡ :

“presence is not proximity. it is the willingness to be seen in the parts you did not rehearse.” FUHHHH, in the world of masking + performance, this one hit extra deep!

Azul💀🖤❤️🤍🇲🇽 :

This is some heavy shadow work all of these are things I’m currently working on or have worked on in the past , as I go about my healing journey my heart hurts for the people I encounter who aren’t quite here yet and I wish I could help them but I understand that there are some lessons you have to learn at your own time and I wish those individuals the best …

Olivia Knox :

damn this opened my third chakra

breezyybelz :

you should start a substack!!! i’d read them all

SugePrince :

chachamaru :

this is so spot on i wish i could articulate my thoughts like this

Medra :

“It is the safety of being unpredictable yourself and still be held” jesus christ I needed this

soullesssoul.777 :

Damn you have a way with words, I feel so seen

reachingforsky :

Emily went through a lot of suffering came out with a lot of knowledge

Lucchi :

Damn

tea_addict :

if you're a writer or will ever write a book I'd read it

Coco 🤘 :

Heavy on all of these. The past years had been a huge learning experience for myself. I finally found a partner that I share my feelings with, regardless of how insane they may feel in the moment as I know he cares. We do not talk endlessly and when in a room together we can sit and just exist and not feel the need to prove anything. We are 2 individuals, not forcing any proof of worth, or faking whom we are. We can be perfectly content in silence, on seperate couches. We do enjoy learning more about one another, and everyday a new understanding is developed as people we constantly change, so to know someone completely would be impossible, but the care to listen and be heard is unmatched. He shows he loves me in ways that matter and without using the word. His actions are enough, and its not complicated, its simple, its easy, and the hard times have thus far been resolved and figured out with meaningful heartfelt discussions, no yelling or anger, just simple communication. For the first time, I realized a disagreement never had to turn into an argument to be understood, because someone who cares will sit and be present with you in how you feel and find an understanding. If that makes sense.

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U articulated everything perfectly and ur right. Literally explained my entire last relationship lol

Miss Tayy :

This just changed something in my brain….a translator of tension and not a participant in love… wow

Franz :

Huh... I really am destroying my relationship....

phoenix_fiire_ :

“Jealousy is control wearing the mask of affection” 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨