@mackenzieherman: Has your avoidant done any of these? If so, I know it hurts, I’m so sorry. #avoidantattachmentstyle #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #attachmentstyle #avoidant
I find this soo difficult in the early stages of dating because it’s genuinely impossible to know whether you’re self-sabotaging or you just don’t like them enough until months if not years down the line. Even if you rationally want to push through the uncertainty, spending time with them is intensely stressful/unpleasant so it’s always easier to end it before they become too attached to you.
2026-03-15 21:34:19
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🚨⚾️Monica⚾️🚨 :
Did is dismissive Avoidants not the fearful aka disorganized attachment
2026-03-23 13:52:25
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xplace4evan :
Why tho? Is there a reason?
2026-03-15 23:21:01
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. :
it is insufferable, i want closeness, but i have to keep her away just so she would want me....?
2026-03-15 21:43:37
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Reeus :
Do they ever come back?
2026-03-15 22:38:16
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ʚ🐞ྀིྀིɞ :
may this never find me ever again.
2026-03-19 00:14:04
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majid ali :
I used to be anxious but after trial and error I’m not a full blown avoidant. Lol
2026-03-16 08:51:18
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🇲🇦🇲🇷🇪🇭🇩🇿Lhamdolelah☪️ :
💔💔💔yes and it hurt for 30 sleepless nights of crying
2026-03-15 16:52:06
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Tamara Meijer :
I didn’t deserve this. I gave all. 🥺
2026-03-19 14:50:38
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Teetotal-Tism :
yeah, I did all that
2026-03-15 21:25:07
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Brian :
7.) they leave one week after signing a lease together
2026-03-20 03:58:38
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brett :
All of them happened to me. It was pretty devastating .
2026-03-15 20:06:21
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Coco :
Wow this is actually so real
2026-03-15 21:04:32
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islandgirl :
My ex did every single one of these…
2026-03-15 18:19:58
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Chelsea K :
Several of these but 6 is the most prominent. A month ago my friend and I talked everyday and we got really close over the course of 4 days and then she got super weird with communication and finally ended our friendship last week after a week of no contact.
2026-03-17 00:43:21
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dsvid :
if you have ever gone through a breakup and asked what did I do wrong the forbidden codex of influence by Julian Voss actually gives some uncomfortable answers.
2026-03-24 16:33:02
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Cameron Alarie :
this is so accurate. but there's nothing you can do but let them leave. let them throw you away. try to move on.
2026-03-17 15:36:05
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Feef :
nah i give up, he can do what he wants now. im moving on
2026-03-18 11:49:13
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Harky.diml :
It’s wild how accurate this is.
2026-04-20 14:01:59
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Jes85 :
This is so accurate!!
2026-03-24 04:05:59
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sunset™️ :
We agreed on takin 3 months apart. No contact the first month and then light texting… but, would that be enough for a five year old avoidant-anxious marriage ? 🥺
2026-03-16 13:44:55
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Kroghlar :
anyway we move on
2026-03-16 18:19:12
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loveletters :
he called me up randomly saying there was “no spark” and ended it out of the blue
2026-03-16 05:43:46
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Laney📚 :
mine said he moved on without talking at all with anything. we went 5 weeks without speaking because he “asked for space”
2026-03-19 04:27:53
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