@mackenzieherman: Has your avoidant done any of these? If so, I know it hurts, I’m so sorry. #avoidantattachmentstyle #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #attachmentstyle #avoidant

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Ffcf27654 :
I find this soo difficult in the early stages of dating because it’s genuinely impossible to know whether you’re self-sabotaging or you just don’t like them enough until months if not years down the line. Even if you rationally want to push through the uncertainty, spending time with them is intensely stressful/unpleasant so it’s always easier to end it before they become too attached to you.
2026-03-15 21:34:19
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bs35681
. :
it is insufferable, i want closeness, but i have to keep her away just so she would want me....?
2026-03-15 21:43:37
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4benlee
4benlee :
Why tho? Is there a reason?
2026-03-15 23:21:01
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monica.n123
Monica :
Did is dismissive Avoidants not the fearful aka disorganized attachment
2026-03-23 13:52:25
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brettmc31
brett :
All of them happened to me. It was pretty devastating .
2026-03-15 20:06:21
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girly_teengirll1
ʚ🐞ྀིྀིɞ :
may this never find me ever again.
2026-03-19 00:14:04
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rollingpanda8
majid ali :
I used to be anxious but after trial and error I’m not a full blown avoidant. Lol
2026-03-16 08:51:18
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wakemeupwhenseptembrend5
HijabiSunflower🧕🌻🇲🇷❤️🇲🇽 :
💔💔💔yes and it hurt for 30 sleepless nights of crying
2026-03-15 16:52:06
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teetotaltism
Teetotal-Tism :
yeah, I did all that
2026-03-15 21:25:07
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dsvidg
dsvid :
if you have ever gone through a breakup and asked what did I do wrong the forbidden codex of influence by Julian Voss actually gives some uncomfortable answers.
2026-03-24 16:33:02
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islandbot1
islandgirl :
My ex did every single one of these…
2026-03-15 18:19:58
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harky.diml
Harky.diml :
It’s wild how accurate this is.
2026-04-20 14:01:59
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cocolito__
Coco :
Wow this is actually so real
2026-03-15 21:04:32
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2sunyeon
sunset™️ :
We agreed on takin 3 months apart. No contact the first month and then light texting… but, would that be enough for a five year old avoidant-anxious marriage ? 🥺
2026-03-16 13:44:55
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skck2009
Chelsea K :
Several of these but 6 is the most prominent. A month ago my friend and I talked everyday and we got really close over the course of 4 days and then she got super weird with communication and finally ended our friendship last week after a week of no contact.
2026-03-17 00:43:21
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tamarameijer54
Tamara Meijer :
I didn’t deserve this. I gave all. 🥺
2026-03-19 14:50:38
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thepeacedomain
Brian :
7.) they leave one week after signing a lease together
2026-03-20 03:58:38
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feef_86
Feef :
nah i give up, he can do what he wants now. im moving on
2026-03-18 11:49:13
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cameronalarie
Cameron Alarie :
this is so accurate. but there's nothing you can do but let them leave. let them throw you away. try to move on.
2026-03-17 15:36:05
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jmartinez4068
Jes85 :
This is so accurate!!
2026-03-24 04:05:59
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perish.me
Kroghlar :
anyway we move on
2026-03-16 18:19:12
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jessicatherabbit44
JessicatheRabbit :
he called me up randomly saying there was “no spark” and ended it out of the blue
2026-03-16 05:43:46
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laney_srq
Laney📚 :
mine said he moved on without talking at all with anything. we went 5 weeks without speaking because he “asked for space”
2026-03-19 04:27:53
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jes_dayami
Jes :
What if randomly I got blocked? Last week we talked fine on Thursday more specifically and all of the sudden over the weekend I noticed I was blocked. Message got delivered but calls go straight to voicemail
2026-03-17 01:31:51
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