@connie.tingg: I’m 22 years old and I’m not afraid to admit that: 1. I have never been in a relationship or been in love. Not because I couldn’t, but because no one ever met my standards or felt right enough to give my time, energy, and heart to. 2. I went from being a 99 ATAR student to failing a unit by 1% in uni. It was truly a reflection of my lack of effort and a real wake-up call. But that year also gave me endless opportunities and allowed me to start my social media journey, turning into the best outcome. 3. I’ve been a gym girl for over 3 years but I still don’t have my dream body. I have body dysmorphia most days but I am also extremely proud of how far I’ve come. 4. My faith is important to me, but I’ll admit I haven’t made the time or effort to actively go to church. It’s not an excuse that life gets too busy, but deep down I have been so nervous to go to a new church alone after not going for 8 years. 5. I don’t have many friends. One friendship ending has changed the way I approach all now, and I’ve always struggled to fully trust people so I tend to keep my circle small. 6. I don’t have it all figured out. I have no idea what the future looks like. Whether that is I’ll work as a physio, focus on content creation full time or travel the world, who knows? It doesn’t scare me, it excites me but sometimes I worry I should have a clear plan. 7. With hookup culture being so normalised, I never felt the need to be part of it, but sometimes I feel embarrassed or judged for that. 8. I care what people think about me. It gets to me when people say irl ‘do you do onlyfans?’ or make condescending comments because I try my hardest to share my gym journey and inspire others. 9. I tried so hard to fit in with friendship groups who didn’t share my values, and I started to lose myself through surrounding myself with the wrong people. 10. I have gone on many dates and met a lot of people, but I worry that I will settle for the wrong person or get hurt again. 11. I fear I’m not enjoying life the way others my age are. I prefer my Saturday nights alone at the gym. #navigatinglife #twenties #growthmindset #selfgrowth #lifejourney

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beller_ina
Ales_sia :
The only difference between u and me is that u posted ur video
2026-04-02 00:38:16
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.ahabwe
🌸Ahabwe 🌸 :
girl am 22 and relate to all the above thank you
2026-03-17 17:18:46
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.yeon.ah
.yeonah :
Girl I’m 26 and never been in a relationship about to graduate with my BSN nursing I feel it fr I don’t party or even want too and can’t do one night stands so ur not alone hopefully you find your circle🫶🏽
2026-03-18 02:35:22
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Ykykyk :
I am 45. I’d tell my 22 yr old self to focus on me only. Men can come later but only at your pace. Babe, honestly, live your 20s exploring life, dreams, and goals. Your future self will appreciate it so much! ❤️
2026-03-17 21:19:04
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shark :
oxford study
2026-03-17 04:17:19
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gabriella.grote
Gabriella :
I’ve never felt more seen
2026-03-18 03:42:18
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lane.or.helena
lane.or.helena :
Love this. All in this together ❤️
2026-03-16 10:18:11
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sophia.is.here
Sophia is Here :
Happy birthday! You're only 22... so chill 😏
2026-05-04 14:06:07
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spartansc21
Smartini :
I just turned 23 this year and still never had a relationship before. I feel you ❤️
2026-03-18 01:18:51
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misslizxo
Liz 💋 :
Hey girl, I’m 29 and wish I was more like you with my mindset when I was 22. Take this time to find yourself, live your life to the fullest while staying grounded in your values and respecting yourself. Never let no man or friend in this worldly world make you lose yourself or lower your standards. Those who are for you will find you, just keep pushing. Happy birthday 🥳 💗
2026-03-18 03:50:07
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itsnatti___
Nattii :
Don’t be scared to go to church alone, it’s nice because it becomes a beautiful moment for you and God. I’ve been going for more than a year alone and it’s amazing ✨🫶🏽
2026-05-07 15:40:02
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kierstinfransen
kierstin fransen :
Girl I’m 26 and feel the exact same way!!
2026-03-18 01:43:15
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thegherkins
Aly :
Hey girl! I’m also 22 at a similar stage in life with similar interests. If you ever wanted to go church, I’d love to invite you to mine in Surry Hills x
2026-05-04 13:39:23
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kaylar5956
Kayla R5956 :
I can relate to a lot of these! I was 22 and had never had a bf and then also met my now husband at age 22 and we have been married now for 12 years and have 2 kids❤️
2026-03-18 18:52:32
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wavey.stb
ostwind :
i like your mindset
2026-05-05 06:21:31
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bahmel2
Melvin :
Except for the gym part, I can relate to all😫and I’m turning 22 soon
2026-05-11 08:25:53
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herroyal_favour
Herroyalfavour :
8 years 😳 pleasssssseeee go to church sooner. Jesus loves us all. Amen 🙏
2026-05-11 21:05:13
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lovelymilq
mila 🐈‍⬛ :
i turn 22 in a months and this is so me 😭 glad to know i’m not the only one
2026-03-18 06:04:37
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Ykkkkk :
Proud of you
2026-03-19 00:57:31
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mabunnyyy1
Ji9star🛐 :
the first one and the 10th one didn't match I don't get it
2026-05-04 02:12:28
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clarithrives
clari. 🌱 :
as a 22 year old girlie, i relate so muchhh! thank uuu for making me feel connected and that i’m not alone in this 🥹🫶🏼
2026-03-18 17:34:05
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zacbrooo
Zachary :
shout out to my 22+ and still haven't been in a relationship ✊🫠
2026-03-19 04:02:05
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arimarie.26
ariel marie 🌊 :
Girl don’t be afraid to go to church alone you will make so much new friends there and also, never is going to be the “perfect moment” YOU NEED TO TAKE DE DECISION NOW. God wants you there, If you have God you have everything. ❤️
2026-05-05 02:40:49
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