𝑯𝒆𝒏𝒓𝒚 𝑱. 𝑲𝒊𝒏𝒄𝒂𝒊𝒅
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Monday 16 March 2026 16:41:45 GMT
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Marbie :
I’ve never loved someone so much but never been so hurt and confused. It’s beautiful and painful at the same time
2026-03-17 20:08:26
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Kay007now :
This is me. I run as soon as it’s too perfect.
2026-03-18 03:31:03
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️ 𝑅 :
i was secure until i met an avoidant and i became anxious. i understand but i’m sorry, avoidants need to learn consideration. everyone has their own way of protecting themselves but being dismissive and just leaving someone is not okay.
2026-05-06 11:36:47
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stokelysawyers :
Thank you for your explanation. My anxious attachment is made respond in appropriately and lose the Avoidant from my life. I know my love was real but didn’t understand the dynamic and how to handle not being trusted and the silence. It has been the greatest life lesson in my life to date. I did upon reflection lose self worth my match the low energy instead of standing in my power. This video is straightforward and for me extremely helpful. 🙏🏿💚 now I am in the struggle of letting the connection go, honestly working on it. 🙏🏿🎯
2026-04-01 16:19:45
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୨ৎthe0gct୨ৎ :
Do they ever come back? He dumped me due to his own issues and in stuck confused and he knows how I feel
2026-03-16 20:31:37
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kittylane7 :
I refuse to shrink myself any further. I have been his doormat for waaayyyy to long. I gave his avoidance attachment compassion at the cost of my self respect…….giving him any further compassion comes at my detriment……..with all due respect this advice is pointless. I have to hold my self respect and self worth higher than I hold his bullshit behaviour. I have to matter as well 🩵
2026-03-17 20:54:39
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Justine Lukas :
But they avoid talking about it with the partners even if said partners are fully aware
2026-03-17 08:26:39
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Lorna :
The best thing I did was leave an avoidant
2026-03-18 19:34:13
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Daniela-Zaïda ❤️ :
yes, i had avoidet parents. i am not avoidet. why? i healed my traumas. i go forward. its a choice
2026-03-24 12:13:34
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ginasires14 :
Is there a final discard? Mine is a fearful avoidant and this is the longest we have gone without contact which is 5 1/2 weeks only. Prior it was a week maximum before getting back together.
2026-03-19 19:29:40
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Devilsangelgayl :
I've left him multiple times for not taking accountability and for betraying me, but he always lets me come back. First time was 2.5 years, second time was 6 weeks, I feel drawn to him 💔
2026-03-16 17:48:04
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Sage :
Nah if I’m not getting consistency I’m out not doing this cycle again
2026-03-18 23:33:44
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zap :
excuses
2026-03-29 06:19:55
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⁺˚⋆｡°✩ 𝙹𝙾𝙹𝙾 ✩°｡⋆˚⁺ :
this is my relationship with my boyfriend who is fearful avoidant. We didnt speak for over a month, only texts. and then he called me and we talked for hours and know he pulled back again. And we also long distance.
2026-04-11 00:02:19
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Nickie :
He ghosted gave silent treatment 2 months.
2026-03-18 15:45:38
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auntiefreedom :
Okay but how much compassion before I am actually self abandoning?
2026-03-19 12:41:14
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… :
Thank you man, you saying this and seeing this I know u must have had your own wars so I appreciate you getting awareness out there for this
2026-03-25 11:13:30
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Gosu :
well said brother
2026-04-22 10:01:22
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Kirstie🩵🦋 :
This is literally me
2026-03-19 00:38:26
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Sir Ulrich Von Liechtenstein :
Helping everyone understand. Good job bro!
2026-03-17 22:16:26
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White_Ghost_S1kr :
what do i need to do she sad you deserve someone better someone that can give you i cant give you at the moment she said here feelings faded away i want here back😞
2026-03-23 05:21:00
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user131344 :
what secure supposed to do in all the empty time?
2026-03-18 18:34:36
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BloomAfterRain 🇨🇦 ❌ :
I understand and have compassion for him, but I’m exhausted and it hurts every time he disappears.
2026-04-27 22:04:45
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Adelle Munien :
4 times in a row though
2026-04-27 16:54:41
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just another TT boi :
She left. 3 times. She’s highly emotional and it felt to me that when her emotions became too much for her, it was easier for her to leave than talk it through. Every time I went back bec her apologies seemed sincere, like there was a sense of awareness of what she was doing. But time kept proving otherwise. I blocked her from all socials but I miss her dearly. I love her so much and more than anything I wanna call her and make sure she’s okay but I know I don’t want to fall back into anything I can’t handle for yet another time.
2026-04-12 14:00:24
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