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theantisocialsimmer. :
just bc it’s not someone else’s day, doesn’t mean they should feel ugly or uncomfortable
2026-03-17 16:33:09
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Fancy Nancy :
Being a guest is underrated -
2026-03-17 01:33:17
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Wanda Shine :
Normalizing saying no. It’s ok. If one says no and your friend gets mad that’s not your friend.
2026-03-16 21:41:31
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Rachel :
Let's just dial back all the wedding and bridal activities it's becoming too much
2026-03-16 18:09:09
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sinenhlanhla_skhosana🫧 ᥫ᭡ :
I understand her. If you are not satisfied with what is required of you as a bridesmaid, kindly decline and be a guest. Nothing hectic 🙏🏽
2026-03-17 17:47:46
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trin☆ :
not a lie told. the bride’s not going to set you up to look a mess in HER wedding… you’re going be beautiful regardless. it’s just not going to be what YOU want & that’s ok. it’s not for you. & as a friend/sister/cousin/whatever, you should understand that.
2026-03-17 10:12:23
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Cam :
I would agree except for the fact that, often, bridesmaids are finding out about dresses and hairstyles AFTER they have already said yes to their friends. I don’t see many bridesmaids proposals that include the dress & hair design.
2026-03-17 12:31:10
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TW :
I would take my friends feelings into consideration, yes my friends are not the “main characters”, but I actually want them to feel beautiful and feel good as well.
2026-03-16 19:19:30
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msl_1115 :
Am I crazy because I agree. I will wear WHATEVER my friend wants because it's her wedding what the heck
2026-03-17 18:52:07
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Karon G | Family | 🫶🏾 :
Chile as a former bride, I realized early on YOUR big day is just a regular day for everyone else. Stop expecting ppl to care as much as you. Saves alot of stress
2026-03-17 18:42:26
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Pabu The Doge :
How about we focus more on making our friends comfortable and focus less on prioritizing an image over being with your friends and family.
2026-03-17 00:43:01
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MizzMimi🍁🍂 :
If these are our sisters, ride or dies, best friends, that we want up there with us, making sure that they feel beautiful and comfortable should be a no brainer. I get wanting some uniformity with color, length of dress, but the "just be a guest!" mindset shouldn't even apply to ppl you'd ask to be a bridesmaid in the first place.
2026-03-17 13:41:29
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HiddenGem :
I’ve been a bridesmaid a few times and I literally just comply to whatever the bride wants without complaints. It’s not about me lol
2026-03-17 19:52:56
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Renée Flores :
100% it’s about the bride!!
2026-03-17 02:01:09
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champagnecurl :
Getting to the point of needing to tell friend that, “ain’t nobody coming to see you” feels like a fracture in the friendship that has nothing to do with a slick back bun.
2026-03-17 23:29:20
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peruvianjew :
I’ll wear a paper sack if that’s what my bff wants me to do
2026-03-17 14:44:23
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Nthabiseng ❤️🔥 :
Or just wait for your own wedding & do whatever the hell you want how is this even a discussion
2026-03-17 12:54:31
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Leonna Annette :
I hear you but you can also admit some of the activities and requests (especially in this economy) is kind of ridiculous
2026-03-17 02:59:59
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AJ Bowen :
Being a brides maid is expensive!
2026-04-03 00:54:05
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Trap queen :
I turned down being a bridesmaid bc the bride wanted me to relax my hair to have a "perfect" slick back. I'm not damaging my hair for a wedding
2026-03-20 12:17:12
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Camilliona1re :
I love you Kami but damn, i’d want my bridesmaids to feel their absolute best on my day…. Yeah sure they can drop out of being within the bridal party, but i’d make the best of making sure they all feel confident
2026-03-17 12:35:54
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Jenea :
JUST. SAY. NO.
2026-03-17 18:38:11
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Fifunmi B :
Sometimes it’s not about being obsessed about your wedding. It’s about recognising different things fit different people. You’re asking people to serve you.. the least you can do it be understanding and they be comfortable while doing so. Uniformity can be done with colour, length and so much more.
2026-03-18 13:44:20
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Tshego🤍 :
My bestie got married and asked me to wear a uniform dress which I knew wouldn’t look good on me. I made this clear to her, asked if I could change it up a bit and she said she wants them to be the same, I told her I’m uncomfortable with it, declined the invitation but promised to be there for everything and she agreed. Our friendship wasn’t strained, I even gave a speech as the Bestie, I got her dressed, got her jewellery and all. Honest communication helps in a good friendship🥰
2026-03-18 09:29:30
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Kazia Taylor :
This was the wrong take unfortunately…
2026-03-17 04:17:20
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