@sexwithcatalina: There is also another reason which is that women’s s*xuality in general is acceptable as long as it turns men on (due to corn culture), but that’s a whole separate video! This is more focusing on power dynamics and gender roles #sissy #sissification #feminization #submission #genderroles

rune_lich :

˙⋆✮⋆. 𝐈𝐯𝐲 ೃ࿔*:･ :

Sam :

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Index_987 :

I’m sure that if you analyse a range of dark romance books, you’ll spot a pattern in female kinks. And just as with male fantasies, which are fuelled by relevant film material but often aren’t acted out in real life, I don’t think most women want to experience what goes on in these books irl.

Someone_Existing :

While gender norms and patriarchy obviously hurt women far more, the standards enforced by them also hurt any men that deviate from the “ideal” male image

none :

I also think that female kinks in general are less looked down by society becuse of their ability to be freely exist in books. With reading becoming a "girly" hobby and a space mainly aimed towards women, books started to pour into the general knowledge that contained some heavy kinks that would otherwise could never pass. It just doesn't look as "depraved" when that certain kink is in words rather then images and videos. Male kinks don't have a space like this, the best I can think of are kink oriented subreddits.

BladeBitten :

The amount of guys that would get pressed if their girlfriend/wife wanted to peg them or even just have sex in the Amazon position!

jordan :

It’s nuanced - I say this as an experienced domme/hotwife. I honestly think gender roles are a hugeeee part of the reason kinks like cuckolding/sissification exist in the first place. The stigma is often what makes it sexy.

JackRyan2122 :

Well a submissive female role in any form isn't all that exciting long term as its been the norm since forever. Whereas male kinks are quite modern and has more "content" for creativity.

Erae :

I think it has to do with the sexualization and objectification of women. In a patriarchacal society what men find attractive are less stigmatized, those are even looked after, it’s kind of the same why being a gay man is more stigmatized than than a lesbian woman. But only because the prominence of male gaze in our society. Not because it’s more acceptable, because it’s more attractive to men as an institution.

Bastiaan :

Because straight people... straight people culture... kinky gay men are so much more chill and open-minded.

serfboi :

: I grew up in Texas in a suburb of Dallas. My high school had a stadium that could seat a few thousand people and it even had a media box of suites on top of the stadium. This was built for high school football (american) and it had like 5 story lights surrounding it so they could have night games. The stadium was full every Friday. They had a radio broadcast. The team had cheerleaders and a drill team of like 50 girls… all in support of 16-18 year old boys on the team. Every drill team girl had the same expression on their faces and they all wore the same style of make up and of course dressed exactly the same in a short dress and with boots on. It marginalized women. I think it sent subtle imprints on what women were there for in our culture: sexy and a very quiet support system to men. As a group they were outwardly, in a cultural sense, submissive and expected to be happy. Men who pointed this out were ridiculed then. Men who supported feminism were laughed at openly. This seems to be universal to so,e extent. Not too long ago this was loosening and people were becoming more tolerant but then there was backlash and insults like “cuck” and “simp” started becoming normal. In the age of the internet being so prevalent lots of young men have adopted a kind of hatred to women anchored to a rampant machismo that belittles any man who finds women to be powerful.

Joe Sims :

to be fair a lot of those the humiliation factor is part of the kink and the likes of sissyficatuon (however that's spelt) doesn't have a female alternative. and things like back door fun with a women is actively sort after by men, where the other way around? women that activity want to do backdoor fun to a man for her own enjoyment.... I have met 1 in my life and she was a genuine nymphomaniac. it's only after her did I appreciate how true 'too much or anything isn't a good thing'

user5737379060995 :

I really don’t agree women don’t talk about kinks with other women they barely even tell the men they have sex with the huge sex industry is mostly male focused on what they like and all the niche things that men want you may find the odd porn that says female friendly

kirsten :

It seems men go for one sort, females go for another type and trans go for another. I find it interesting when looking at groups for different types of activities that depending on which one you look at they are massively oversubscribed by one type of gender