@loving.templates: People in custody battles learn this the hard way… Document every interaction with your co-parent. This spreadsheet tracks text, calls, emails and meetings in one place. Get your BUNDLE in BIO 👆 #coparenting #coparentingstruggles #custodybattle #custodycourt #documenteverything
As someone who used to be a family law paralegal. Don’t do this.
2026-03-17 23:26:46
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Megan Rice :
And the judge won’t even look at it..
2026-03-20 17:36:33
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Chris mincey :
That’s just a spreadsheet of your opinions……
2026-03-17 20:00:27
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Melonicious64 :
I work in family law, get a new attorney. The more you focus on the other parent the worse you look to the court and professionals
2026-03-18 06:09:37
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McMeats :
This is obsessive and unnecessary
2026-03-18 17:01:42
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Dduck :
I get it but this is a red flag lol
2026-03-17 18:13:15
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doberpit :
The “tone” column is so subjective. My husband could reply to his ex “hey, unfortunately, I can’t accommodate X due to Y. I’m sorry.” And since he declined, she would consider it a hostile tone.
2026-03-17 19:59:19
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Maria :
thats a nice spreadsheet.
2026-03-16 18:22:58
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4kids..andaglassofwine :
I did this, he ended up asking my husband to adopt the kids and walked away. I tell everyone to document every single detail, it matters.
2026-03-17 12:10:57
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lex :
as an attorney, just document the dates of interactions. let them do the work of getting the subpoenas of proof.
2026-03-18 15:31:26
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Lindsay Cavalier :
I tried doing this and it destroyed me mentally and emotionally. Having to track everything and nothing was ever done to protect my kids- broke me. 😕 I hope you have better luck with this - for the sake of your sanity.
2026-03-17 17:30:50
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M 🕊️✨ :
Family law paralegal here, spreadsheets are worthless. Recordings, actual texts, tangible evidence is what matters. Don’t waste your attorneys time with this 🙃
2026-04-01 18:36:22
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Bailey Holley :
as a child of separated parents, ik this(these) child(ren) are exhausted and will probably talk to both of you less the second they move out
2026-03-18 07:58:08
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JennaM :
Mines done 😌
2026-03-17 16:23:37
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Unforgettable_Gem :
You clearly have skills that could be utilised for far better things!
2026-03-18 08:25:19
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FallTimeBarbie420 :
Everyone that’s attacking her, uhhh he has the exact same ability to do this 💁🏽♀️ANYONE DOES. Most custody lawyers advise you DOCUMENT every interaction and exchange. That’s normal. This is being SMARTS. KUDOS 👏🏽
2026-03-18 01:50:15
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Annie :
This is awesome actually. Don’t listen to the negative comments. If they make an accusation about not getting visits etc you can use it to remind yourself of every interaction. I’m not sure a judge would look at it, but if asked specifics you have documentation.
2026-03-25 03:54:51
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selinaonyxwellness :
Damn that seems extremely exhausting
2026-03-18 05:09:55
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Cynthia Mendez :
Who has time for this ???
2026-03-28 15:52:22
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KivvySlice :
This is wild. Glad me and my daughter’s mom can get along for the good of the kid.
2026-03-17 15:48:39
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Kate :
this seems like a massive waste of time. a judge wont care about an opinion, they wants texts, voicemails, etc
2026-04-08 04:00:16
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user6742236683046 :
Does that spreadsheet also track the child support payments that hit your account ?
2026-03-18 08:11:48
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southwest142 :
Omg how can you go back 5 years? 😝
2026-03-16 17:42:21
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FallTimeBarbie420 :
Great idea 💡 always make sure your kids come first and their best interest!
2026-03-18 01:47:11
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Ms.Kei :
My family law attorney told me to do this. It shows patterns
2026-03-18 10:13:57
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