Jay Shetty
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Monday 16 March 2026 22:42:10 GMT
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Gina Priolo :
tone 100% matters
2026-03-17 05:34:46
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Trisha 🤍 :
Understanding & listening are two different things!
2026-03-16 22:50:37
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JoJo :
And trusting that when you partner says they didn’t mean it that way, they didn’t mean it that way and not holding onto the way you heard it.
2026-03-17 18:25:17
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❤️CHUTITO_PRIME🪽😇 :
Crazy to think I nearly overlooked The Lost Mindset Laws by Matt Falkner… it honestly feels like something we were never supposed to discover.
2026-03-17 00:13:34
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Mr.Pigeon :
Tone policing isn’t healthy either
2026-03-17 01:00:35
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cjwillx :
That’s why communication over text is a nightmare. No way to convey tone
2026-03-18 17:19:46
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Lisa | Author & Survivor :
One of the biggest mistakes in communication is assuming the other person understands what you mean. We think it’s obvious, or that they see things the way we do, but clarity takes effort. Listening to understand, not just to respond, is where real connection happens.
2026-03-18 16:51:27
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rob.ryon :
The gap between what’s said and what’s received is where most relational conflict lives.
2026-03-16 22:55:56
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loveyourz4040 :
ppl focus on the delivery & not the message.
2026-03-18 19:26:30
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Mrshcrosa :
It’s all about perception
2026-03-16 23:15:41
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Miles M :
This is me !!!!! Did you hear what I said
2026-03-20 15:01:21
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Haps :
"That's not what I meant" then it turns into impact vs intent or deflection and defensiveness. There is no logic to it, only how it felt. 😣. Then just goes downhill from there and resentment starts to happen.
2026-03-19 09:07:13
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Real Talk with Penelope :
The tone is the true communication.
2026-04-19 09:02:44
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Laura'sLife :
He just described my entire marriage.
2026-03-17 03:14:39
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Foofoocuddlypoops :
And that’s why I distinguish hearing and listening. Pretty much every fight stems from a misinterpretation from not listening — people hear words, but forget to listen to the message and communicate from what they heard
2026-04-28 10:06:29
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Buck_Lo_Niugini :
so much value from this
2026-03-16 22:56:33
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JenJarrett :
Love this. 💚
2026-03-17 10:49:32
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Peppermint_60 :
Great advice. my husband and I are not in the same page these days.
2026-03-18 19:57:44
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Mindful-thoughts :
be human to human
2026-03-17 04:37:57
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Katie :
“The story I’m telling my self is…”
2026-03-17 15:28:39
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She Said So :
tone is unconscious our feelings. Where the words come from
2026-03-18 20:13:26
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KlrWhale :
How are you..gonna tell me…what I said !?!
2026-03-17 03:12:11
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ATXStacy :
this is really good
2026-03-17 14:56:26
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🇨🇦 RealEstateGoals 🇨🇦 :
Very true! I have noticed this happening and derailing the conversation. Validate one another’s perception and feelings.
2026-03-17 01:48:05
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Dashmom6838🪼 :
Because…. wounded ears hear rejection in conversation, this is their filter if someone has wounds and you’re trying to communicate from a place of love, they are not going to hear love they are going to hear that you’re rejecting them or they are NOT enough…so this is true and any conversation really with anybody you have to be intentional and you have to really understand how your conversation is going to land or your statement is going to land it’s intentionally being thoughtful before your words come out of your mouth. It’s not easy….. but if you can pause breathe and really think about what you’re trying to communicate and then also give them space to hear it and then like he said ask for what they heard back 100%….. but wounded ears will hear rejection where love was trying to speak…. Every time.🙏…. I had this happened to me recently, where the emotions of a situation just became so overwhelming and I delivered through sadness and through disappointment and through grief really, and the delivery was so emotional. It was ridiculous and for me, it was revealing to myself because I realized I had some deeper wounding that was coming to the surface so it was a gift both sides, but I just really had to take a pause in a step back and really look at why where was it coming from…. I was trying to communicate one thing and everything was coming out and it was coming out wrong and it was in message and you know they’re not in front of you so it lands how it lands…..text is the worst for communication…
2026-04-10 17:48:20
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