It’s like I crave it but once I get it I feel like I’m being talked to like a child
2026-03-17 06:02:18
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weloveyoumare :
You look so much like Kelly Rowland
2026-03-23 11:36:31
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jordan :
I distinctly remember a classmate's mom being kind and genuinely asking how I was doing. She genuinely asked me about my interests. It was the first time anyone had talked to me like that in my memory. I was probably 13ish. I could not understand why an adult would care about my interests. I was so confused at the time and was sharp with my attitude. She responded with softness and genuine interest again. I nearly cried because it simply made no sense. There had been people who had been nice to me before then, but none I could remember who actually asked me about myself with care. It took me a decade to figure it all out, but I've since told her what a huge impact that moment was for me. Now I try to be that person for others. And it's evidence for me that the small interactions we have every day can make all the difference
2026-03-17 13:57:01
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The LaChiara Method :
Our nervous systems are soooo clear with us and are so stubborn sometimes!
2026-04-30 20:45:03
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veganbaconbits :
I’d genuinely love to be proven wrong on that IRL, but I haven’t yet 🤷🏻♀️In therapy specifically it’s always soft-spoken gentleness that later peels back to reveal inability to handle my strong feelings, or defensiveness when I disagree with the systemic pathologization of my medical trauma
2026-03-17 03:05:09
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Brittany Funk :
Yup! I’m like “what do you want from me?”
2026-03-17 12:02:49
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Charis Melina Brown :
Yes! And people who haven’t experienced genuine good hearts will often call kind people “fake”
2026-03-17 11:36:59
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thefaithfulcouch :
Every setback is a setup for growth. 🥰❤️
2026-04-07 14:44:59
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roxinpunch :
I just need someone to yell nice things at me is that too much to ask
2026-03-18 21:30:27
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JJ :
I just start crying lol
2026-03-19 05:49:31
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sovereignhellwig :
it sounds manipulative to e
2026-03-22 13:27:29
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Qlout Ransom :
The whole state of Ga tbh
2026-04-09 09:00:18
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ce.belle :
I’m suspicious at first, but then it depends on whether or not I feel like it’s genuine.
2026-03-19 10:12:35
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Zero :
Oooh writing this down to talk to my therapist about because I didn't even think about this
2026-03-17 16:47:39
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Krissy 🆘️🇺🇸 :
It sucks. My therapist is so kind and he has been so patient with me. And even though he's done literally nothing to make me not trust him I'm still always waiting for the catch.
2026-03-17 11:12:06
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xoxozozo99 :
Yes! I sometimes felt confused because I am soft spoken and try to be gentle with others. I didn't understand why some people automatically didn't like me due to it.
2026-03-17 02:07:20
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Tay | Booktok 📖 💫👾 :
Very true
2026-03-17 19:46:29
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Sana :
True 💯💯
2026-03-17 09:36:22
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freezerbrn :
I don’t regret being caring, ever. Because it’s all I’ve ever wanted. It can be embarrassing to be gentle and soft to someone who doesn’t appreciate it. But I know I sometimes don’t know how to react to someone being gentle with me.
2026-04-27 15:57:21
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Sandy Santee :
Love this!!
2026-03-17 11:56:21
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Just Shaye :
Kelly ? Is that you girl ?
2026-03-22 22:18:18
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raisedabroad| 📍Japan :
Louder for them because they can't hear you!!!
2026-03-17 02:04:12
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Kate Kuhlman :
Oh…well that explains a lot
2026-03-26 00:42:58
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Joi✨ :
Will you take US clients ?
2026-03-17 21:02:39
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Ruby :
wowww that explains so much
2026-03-17 16:36:22
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