@theartofhealingbytrevor: It’s not that you don’t like attention, it’s that if no one knows it’s your birthday, no one can forget you. And if no one is celebrating you, you don’t have to risk being truly seen and feeling like you’re not enough. Being celebrated feels uncomfortable when you don’t believe you’re worth it!
I simply dont care. to me its just another Monday or whatever day it falls on. Thats why I dont tell anyone. I seriously just dont care.
2026-03-19 22:54:58
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Eric :
Sir, don’t tell me why I don’t celebrate my birthday. The reason why I don’t celebrate my birthday because I don’t want the attention. I don’t need people saying happy birthday for a day. That’s just a regular day. I understand it was the day I was born the day I came into the world, but I just did it as a normal day.
2026-03-19 02:25:35
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Rotten Twinkie :
wrong...I tell people but don't remind them. My trauma thought is if they cared about me they would remember on their own. them forgetting is "proof" that they don't care 🥴
2026-03-20 00:46:29
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Ellie :
It's too early in the morning for me to get called out like this
2026-03-18 09:57:07
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Rachelle :
I don’t tell people my birthday because I don’t like fake friends. That only reach out and say happy birthday when Facebook reminds them.
2026-03-20 01:40:04
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danielpkershaw :
No sorry, I don’t say anything cause you can’t forget something that you don’t know. Easier than being disappointed that no one remembers
2026-03-20 02:59:26
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the.jim.project :
90% of those who wish me a happy birthday see it on Facebook so nothing is genuine. It’s not even worth bringing up.
2026-03-18 19:35:42
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PimpDiCaprio :
I actively hate being perceived
2026-03-18 23:48:15
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David :
WRONG! I simply don’t want the spotlight…
2026-03-19 15:44:05
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That Fucking Guy :
or... #3
it's just a birthday. the day people happe. to be born on holds no objective importance other than the importance you give it... like in both of your 2 examples.
2026-03-18 23:18:28
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Alicia G 🖤 :
Bc they always forget so I know I'm not worth it.
2026-03-19 08:07:44
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kenishiwah :
I 100% don't like or want that attention. simple.
2026-04-16 00:08:45
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DeadFoliage :
Low key I don’t want to celebrate my birthday because then I can be off the hook celebration other people’s birthday
2026-04-07 22:26:22
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Ian Rodriguez :
It’s hard when one of your parents forgets it’s your birthday, and your entire life you have to share a party because your birthdays are a few weeks apart so it was never a “special day” So it’s just another day
2026-03-19 19:23:39
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Duck_Kota :
People know my birthday, they still don’t celebrate me. The people closest to me show me they don’t value me.
2026-03-27 03:57:53
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Zack Ford :
this is so filtered I'm not sure it's not AI
2026-03-23 12:59:19
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Dream :
No because nobody cares and I don’t want to embarrass myself
2026-05-01 04:12:48
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cgue0❌ :
No, not correct.
2026-03-20 03:13:15
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Roy Daniel Weaver :
lies in don't like the attention
I celebrate with FAM only
2026-03-21 01:54:51
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Samantha :
oh and number 3 of every one forget aways also what's one more person...for me its all 3
2026-03-20 00:10:54
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Paapeseed :
Neither. When I was a kid, my mother always made it about her, and I always got punished. As an adult, my birthday was always overlooked, so I stopped trying to make it a special day.
2026-04-26 06:20:26
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Vox :
no it's because I'm an introvert and don't like being perceived
2026-04-16 17:29:38
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Capri Lawrence :
I hate celebrating cuz evertime I pland something for like 4 years straight no one ever came. so now if someone wants to celebrate my birthday they have to figure out what to do
2026-03-23 16:10:00
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jsj :
I thought that I wanted once to celebrate my birthday for my 25th. I invited all my friends. No one showed up. My worst fear had come true.
2026-03-21 07:31:40
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