I think my boyfriend is avoidant 😞😞😞. He says he has strong feelings but he has never said he loves me.
2026-03-17 17:29:35
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Hunyor László :
Yeah. I can confirm this as a fearful avoidant. The suppression and shutdown happen on autopilot, even when you are aware of it. I can suppress and compartmentalize very effectively, but that doesnt mean I dont feel it. With a fully secure partner tho, this protective mechanism is not as active. They dont trigger your core fear.
2026-03-17 19:31:08
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Michellemybelle :
Exactly, protectiveness
2026-03-17 17:30:22
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Kilian :
Relate to this so much. And when it ended and he tried to stay friends, he immediately said it wouldn’t bother him at all to see me with someone else…
2026-03-26 00:16:22
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Teresa McCormack :
I always felt my ex was never jealous… so this makes sense
2026-03-19 08:47:01
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