okay I just came back to give an update. so ice queen here. I did all of these thing you said. no more blocking no more being aggressive etc. and now I have 3 boyfriend's.
2026-03-17 23:27:01
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Tay Taylor 🪭🐆 :
Hearing someone promote self accountability in relationships is soooo refreshing. Immediate follow
2026-03-18 18:38:43
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Lexi :
I agree. We have completely eradicated the whole idea of individuality. Every single person communicates differently, shows interest differently, shows love differently etc. People are giving up on each other before they give relationships the proper space and communication to begin.
2026-03-19 06:12:50
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🌙uliana :
I just don’t date anymore… it’s been working really well… haven’t been cheated on in 7 years
2026-03-19 10:09:14
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Women’s Alignment Coach :
10000000% our energy and emotional state LEADS.
2026-03-18 18:32:41
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null . :
I cannot stress enough how important it is that you make it your mission to turn the mirror back ourselves. For a while i struggled to truly understand what you meant when you said that it didnt matter what the man did and that we need to worry about what WE’RE doing, but now. GIRL I UNDERSTAND. I express all my emotions and desires without fear, shame, or expectation of reciprocation and that honestly is like a fan to any person with bad cologne. Being myself and expressive with either repel people and pull them closer. I dont even think about rejection because I dont express with intent to recieve. It just is what is and life goes on. THANK YOUUUU
2026-03-18 04:20:38
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Es 🌻 :
Girl, I am tired
2026-04-07 09:37:20
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Hailey Gorsalitz :
Also you have to meet people where they are. You can’t expect someone else to put in effort if you’re not willing to.
2026-03-18 15:35:38
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olivia :
i text, i engage, still nothing. what else am i supposed to do
2026-04-22 20:54:20
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honey 🌱🍯 :
Why would I waste my time and energy like that
2026-03-19 20:19:47
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Smileenatalie :
What’s your advice for dating as an anxious avoidant? I feel like it’s the worst combo because when the anxiety isn’t taking over, the avoidance kicks into full gear.
2026-03-18 15:00:06
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𓆩yzzy || ❄️ 🐟 𓆪 :
he says he’s so swamped w work so he won’t be likely to respond if i texted him, but he was also like “but feel free to text me!” like should i even bother or should i just leave him be to sort his stuff out
2026-03-18 08:03:25
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floridakiloss :
hear me out, we met and he asked me out a day after but i couldn’t go out that day, so i asked him when is he gonna be available again and he just said “oh it’s ok we can do it when you’re free” so we talked for a few days (he takes forever to respond) and then stopped. we see each other again at the gym, he’s super flirty and joking with me, then after a few days i texted him (took the initiative for the first time) and he asked me if i was gonna be in town for the weekend, i said yes, but then he didn’t elaborate. i thought he was gonna ask me out but he didn’t, so i just said “guess i’ll see you around then” bc we go to the same gym, but he didn’t make another move. is this a “if he wanted to he would” situation? cause i just don’t understand, he literally hit on me a fes days before, i just thought he was kinda insecure to ask me out again, so i tried to make things easier and give him a green light for him to do it
2026-04-03 20:57:40
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You are changing my life every damn day with these pep talks
2026-03-17 23:42:45
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Luna :
Owh trust me IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD love lol
2026-03-19 13:52:18
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SlipperySeal :
If many of us merely turned the mirror around, our relationships would be sooo much better. Sadly, it's a lot easier for people to blame the "other" person than look inward 😔
2026-03-18 22:42:33
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.kaleidoscope_eyes :
On Valentines Day, he never said Happy Valentine’s Day. We had been flirting and talking for about a year. I told him I was kinda bummed he didn’t say anything. He apologized right away and he drove from a different state to come see me…. I was vulnerable and expressed my feelings first. That gave him the green light.
2026-04-02 04:27:54
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Jas :
I was really hesitant to your videos and sometimes i still don’t like them but i really value your view point on focusing on yourself and not living in a negative centred state. Expecting a positive outcome is incredibly harder than i realised and that’s been my biggest project to work on. So thank you for exposing me to a different mindset.
2026-03-19 01:15:10
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Libertad :
he asked for my number but we haven't talked should I text him?
2026-03-18 01:01:24
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Shady :
I love your content sm! But how can i signal that im interested? We are friends and we talk but he isn’t doing as much as I do but everyone says he likes me😭
2026-03-17 23:10:33
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savannah :
im not asking him to hangout i always do now its his turn and i think thats fair
2026-04-05 18:39:54
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Forbidden_Pigeon :
this made me realize I don't want him anymore bc I will not chase anymore
2026-03-18 21:33:51
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Morgan :
wait can you elaborate and give a solution😭
2026-03-19 04:04:32
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