@burned_notbroken: a safe, supportive environment means way more than romantic gestures #relationshipburnout #emotionalburnout #burnedoutpursuer #relationshiprepair #RelationshipAdvice

xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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pumpkinpatxhh
Pumpkinpatxh :
What if you both feel like your are the burnt out pursuer
2026-04-02 19:52:41
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jennahd36
Jen :
What if we live together? How do I give them plenty of space without making myself uncomfortable in my own home?
2026-05-16 15:29:51
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0123987abc
0123987abc :
How do you navigate winning them back in a long distance relationship?
2026-04-17 16:38:11
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millenial_core80
Millenial_Core :
Your content has helped me so much. I feel like you are putting into words everything I feel but haven’t been able to explain.
2026-03-27 11:59:36
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natshaebae
Natalie Shae :
Find myself hitting save on all your videos bc I am the burned out pursuer!
2026-05-01 12:44:18
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bossassmom13
BossAssMom :
Why do I feel like I need a “ why now?” why did you choose to change now after I’ve given up? Is this Normal? Is there a way to get past that if they don’t have a reason?
2026-04-03 18:38:57
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avoidtherip
Anthony Thomas Miles :
I've watched several of your videos. I've felt the frustration you fought through in your videos. She was the burned out pursuer. I found confidence in the work I'm putting in with this video 🥰. Thank you. A busy life both physically and mentally caused me to miss so much that she said, it didnt help I held back speaking due to not being heard earlier in the relationship and later out of fear of hurting her. I know now, sometimes words hurt, but the lack of them hurts more. And I will live curiously in any future relationships. Hoping with time, she may reach out. I'm leaving the space for her, especially since she "doesnt see herself being able to move forward with a relationship ". Again, thank you 🙇‍♂️
2026-03-19 04:40:34
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kaleharding
kaleharding :
actually I will take this AND romantic gestures
2026-04-13 14:59:54
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trey.narcisse
trey.narcisse :
What about if you’re a burnt out avoidant 😭
2026-03-29 17:27:44
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death..xiii
death13 :
how long till they feel safe
2026-03-30 08:04:48
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lex_phomolo
Phomolo :
She doesn’t want our elationship but she wants a friendship
2026-03-19 12:26:41
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luckynonine
mattie :
What if I’m the burnout? I don’t know if I made the right decision
2026-05-15 22:52:34
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marymagsb
marymagsb :
😔 I’m not even the pursuer but need safety to stop flight mode
2026-03-18 15:32:42
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loweisz
・ᴥ・ :
what qualities and actions are needed to create that environment?
2026-06-11 21:37:13
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benpatric35
B007 :
how do you create the environment to open the door to communication ? this is what im struggling with and dont want to do the wrong thing
2026-05-17 05:09:20
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kjames.playboi
Kjames.playboi. :
I need your help. I’m so frustrated i am scared
2026-03-27 17:56:03
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jamiewindy
Jamie Windy :
Why is it so hard to follow your advice 😂 just want to do better and I’m failing
2026-04-03 02:41:38
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sb155250
Sb :
Your advise, and thoughts are spot on! Thank you! For me it was the need for such small changes and just consistency, so I didn’t always feel like I was just waiting for the other shoe to drop
2026-03-18 16:12:34
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tanuki_191
tanuki_191 :
I needed to hear this. I’m taking notes and am taking the steps needed to make the safe enviroment for them
2026-04-10 01:14:35
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timgretty313
TimGretty313 :
At what point does the burned out partner need to take responsibility for their side of the story? At some point they need to show up for their partner too.
2026-05-14 18:45:12
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nurcesarsocial
RiftCombo :
So is romance and love wrong here
2026-04-15 21:50:07
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viorelia24
Viorelia :
how do you do this?
2026-04-21 21:34:59
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samsonminehartselfgrowth
Samson Minehart | Self Growth :
Absolutely! Great post! Burnout can happen very quick
2026-03-18 17:46:39
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haydenhappens
Hayden.Happens :
How does one get them back when it feels like they want you to make these changes (which I agree on & am absolutely all in on doing) but they have given ZERO hope for reconnecting & possibly (hopefully) try again ?
2026-04-24 16:35:17
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georgestama
George stama :
sounds like a lot of games let's be honest and do you want them after the separation so you can always think about what they did on separation
2026-04-02 03:45:15
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