@cal.calamia: ✅ Breakup Tok ❤️‍🩹 Literally been putting this off for a year and a half? Breaking up is like a hurricane of grief? Idk if we’re talking about it enough? Especially for queer folks, when we intertwine deeply and feel seen in ways we never have before, a breakup is a severe rupture. It sends shock waves out to everything in proximity. When we have strains with our families of origin, it’s even more challenging to find our bearings when everything falls apart. It’s hard to admit that after trying everything I could think of, I still failed. It’s hard to not believe that there’s something wrong with me. It’s hard to afford rent alone. It’s hard to get on a single-line phone plan, my god. While it’s hard to have a blank space where some imagined future may have been, I’m no stranger to dreaming new possibilities. And how spectacular (and ugh so scary sometimes) it is to live in the moment, letting it unfold into something beyond the limits of my past desires. While I can’t help but wonder who it will be, how many people, what gender(s), what they look like, where we’ll live, what kind of music they listen to… I am cherishing being the person I love most in my life right now. I’m remembering how much of a gift my love is. And hey, yours is too. Don’t forget it ❤️

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Wednesday 18 March 2026 17:59:30 GMT