@wealthywithkayla: My Granny once told me something that slapped me right in the face. She said: In five years, most of the people you see every day will be strangers again. The coworkers you eat lunch with. The neighbors you wave to. The people you bend yourself into shapes for so things stay “easy.” Not gone. Just… no longer in your orbit. That’s how life works. People flow in. People flow out. And you don’t get to control who stays. When that really landed, I thought about how much energy I’d spent trying to be liked. How many times I said yes when my body said no. How often I made choices based on who might be disappointed later. And for what? If so many people are only here for a chapter, why do we build our lives around keeping them comfortable? This is your reminder: YOU are allowed to invest YOUR energy where it actually matters. YOU are allowed to build a life that feels good to YOU — even if it doesn’t make sense to anyone else. Because in five years, they might be strangers again. But you’ll still be here. If this hit you like it hit me, save it as a reminder to choose yourself. And hit follow if you’re ready to build a life that actually feels like yours. 🩷 Kayla #busymom #wealthcreation #selflove #selfempowerment #strategicgrowth

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kristen_leigh_143
✨ 🍀 Kristen 🍀 ✨ :
I’m not even the same person I was 5 years ago.
2026-03-19 19:25:27
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themom1969
themom1969 ❌ :
I tell my kids and grandkids life is a play. Some are here for an act or maybe a few acts, some are here for just one scene but a few and I mean a very few are here for the entire play
2026-03-19 16:33:03
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tiffanyinok
Tiffany :
At 55, I don’t spend time worrying about friends anymore. If it causes friction of any sort, I’m out.
2026-03-19 15:26:15
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mellykp687
Mellykp687 :
It’s partially true but can also be used as an excuse to not invest in relationships or go the extra mile for someone just to be nice. It’s a very “me” centered concept to use when convenient.
2026-03-19 22:22:45
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trish120fl
User123456789 :
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. And that's okay.
2026-03-19 20:00:28
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showlolife
ShowLo :
Why did you put creepy music to this 😂
2026-03-19 20:20:20
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sonyarmdn1
sonya :
Wow! This is so true and I’ve never thought of it that way. But I think as I’ve gotten older, I’ve made the decision to stop being a people pleaser. I just don’t care anymore.
2026-03-19 18:43:45
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ramama411
ramama411 :
my energy is a luxury item...not everyone can afford it
2026-03-20 17:35:18
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southernleftistwitch
southernleftistwitch :
I must be weird. I’ve (gladly) had the same neighbors and co-workers for decades. Most are involved in my family life — if not day-to-day, then at least for regular gatherings. If I’ve met you, I’m hoping we’ll be calling on one another for a lifetime.
2026-03-20 00:44:37
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dirtydelusions
Jenifire :
people are exhausting and drain my energy
2026-03-19 20:32:31
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wontdiewondering
Stormy weather :
I wish people would stop copying their instagram videos to this platform
2026-03-20 14:27:23
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angrydad316
Angrydad3:16 :
I have co workers I worked with for 2 years. Left that job 8 years ago. Still talk to them monthly if not a few times a week. We live 2 hours and 10 hours apart. This post isn't true for everyone.
2026-04-12 15:00:57
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i.go.by.gabe
OhHeyItsHim :
A season, a reason, or a lifetime.
2026-03-20 01:29:40
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ash13yftw
Ashley :
I focus on my husband and my kids. That’s it. Life is simple and happy then
2026-03-19 15:35:44
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myownprivateidaho0
Barb :
I’m almost 59 and this is so true. As we (hopefully) learn and grow, not everyone will grow with us. Everything has a season, including relationships.
2026-03-19 14:28:29
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thecookiecrafter
Lisa The Cookie Crafter :
If a friendship lasts 7 years it’s almost guaranteed to last a lifetime
2026-03-19 22:49:46
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olivela65
Anne olive🕊️ :
That’s not true for a lot of us. I have known most of my friends for over 30 years and have had the same best friend for over 40years.
2026-03-20 09:21:10
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antiracistcat
Jayne Em :
Oh, so this is a universal experience? Because I seem to be surrounded by people who have friends/family that they’ve been in orbit with for decades. And I’ve been thinking there was just something fundamentally wrong with me that I don’t have that.
2026-03-19 15:54:51
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lisaadams8920
lisaadams8920 :
I've had the same friends since high-school. Some since elementary school. 🤷‍♀️
2026-03-20 02:42:52
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themeatballer
themeatballer :
my grandpa told me about the frogbird barn city suburb theory and I can't look at myself in the mirror again.
2026-03-20 06:43:46
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deetsdupesdeals
deetsdupesdeals :
This is weird. I have the same best friend since 3rd grade. Same friends at work for the last 8 yrs, still friends with people i worked at my last job for 10 years. Still friends with my old neighbors and we moved 3 years ago. Relationships of any kind take effort especially as adults who have busy lives.
2026-03-19 17:42:27
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sheri.budd
Sheri Budd :
Who has different neighbors every 5 years? I love the spooky music also. God this app is so weird
2026-03-20 03:43:53
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geenz_michelle
Michelle :
That’s why I think it’s weird that ppl search for people to add on social media that they used to know ages ago. Or keeping people on your social media from like middle school who you will never even speak to
2026-03-19 21:15:18
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tikitoki2021
Tux🐈‍⬛ :
I spend 0 energy trying to be liked. As a result I’m largely disliked, which was my goal. 😂
2026-03-19 20:48:22
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