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Cheryl1203 :
You have to go through these scenarios in your head to sort it out…I get it. But 20 years post divorce now I can tell you none of it matters anymore. The end result is the same. It was never about you ( I know sounds crazy). Mine was a true covert narcissist . We try to understand things that honestly we will never understand because we don’t operate like they do so you end up spinning your wheels. This is all an important part of the process, just try not to get stuck here. Work it out to make peace with it and know that you are amazing and beautiful, capable of love and deserving of it being reciprocated. This is not your failure and his bad behavior is not your responsibility. I’m rooting for you and sending support🥰💕💕.
2026-03-19 04:19:57
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Amarilis Rigal :
They say it is never the first and it is never the second 🥺
2026-03-20 00:40:50
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♌️Queen_0_0_🐝 :
I’m 6 months out and things (situations) pop up in my head all the time that I used to brush off and now I can see it clearly. The anger just keeps growing
2026-03-19 04:12:57
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Amanda1coolmom :
Sorry you have to go through this. I went through a similar situation a few years back, my husband had multiple affairs. I forgave him and “thought“ that it had made us stronger only to find out again he was starting up another affair, all the while I was watching his texts & messages from his iPad. But also realizing that he was just not the person I thought he was. The way he spoke to other woman or his guy friends, I was disgusted by it all. In a way it made it easier to get out of the marriage but of course the sadness of having a broken family was the worst part. My kids are a bit older so it was easier for them to understand the situation but still…. Even when it’s the right thing to do it’s the hardest. Hang in there it does get easier over time. Just take it one day at a time. 😊
2026-03-19 19:41:50
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Demetra Conklin :
Talking about you behind your back is the most painful
2026-03-19 22:53:12
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Tania Daniel :
You’re experiencing cognitive dissonance. It’s such a difficult thing to work through and make sense of. Be kind to yourself. I promise the best is yet to come.
2026-03-29 22:43:17
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Finding me again :
Give yourself time.
2026-03-19 23:33:21
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snickletrud :
I’m six years out and still think about it almost daily. The feelings and emotions aren’t as intense but they are still there.
2026-04-23 19:04:42
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Sharky :
You’re so much better off now beautiful lady!! Stay strong and God Bless you!! 🙏🙏❤️❤️
2026-03-19 03:57:17
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Snipercraig :
That’s sad ! You’re such a Beautiful Lady!!💐🙏
2026-03-19 13:29:58
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Todd Nicholas840 :
It’s going to take a lot longer than that to move through what he did to you. I’m at a year and a half and it still lingers. They have no idea of the pain they cause. But it does get better. It just takes time.
2026-03-22 11:19:34
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mdmikey :
Same! She doesn’t know I know, but I found out there was something going on. To be honest, the more I find out the better I feel about the situation. It’s odd.
2026-03-19 08:04:07
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ThorLab🐶🇨🇦 :
It’s a process and you are doing great. Focus on you and your care. You will be a much better woman after all this. He will be left in the dust. 💕💕💕🥰🥰🥰🙏
2026-03-19 02:52:22
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anidma1 :
You got this...🙏🏻
2026-03-19 02:12:43
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MoonwindFairy :
Don’t be sorry for feeling what you are feeling. Take all of the time you need to grieve & heal…Betrayal is such a horrible wound…Sending You lots of Comforting & Healing thoughts and energy ♥️
2026-03-28 03:08:30
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Diane Marie :
It’s a terrible betrayal of your trust and you almost have to learn how to remember things and reconcile it all. If I was happy is it cancelled now? That’s what I wrestled with simply because of the incredible shock and duration of betrayal. Like a theft of my life energy
2026-03-19 10:55:59
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WhoIsThis :
Stay strong... It gets easier to maneuver but doesn't ever go away. You deserve the world and all that's in it..💯😁
2026-03-19 02:05:30
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Becky Hirschman :
Take the time and feel it. I know it suck’s but it will be better for you in the long run. When the carpet gets pulled out from underneath you, it knocks the air right out of you. Lean on those that love you and give the rest to god!!
2026-03-21 02:29:15
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Judi ✨ :
Your situation is very similar to mine. I’ve been divorced 2yrs now and look back at red flags that I didn’t know were red flags. It’s a lot but honestly you’ll get through it and be much happier without him. You’ll find yourself again. Hang in there 😊
2026-03-19 12:49:01
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Divorce Tales :
This is very normal. You will get there.
2026-03-19 17:36:09
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LT :
My husband was good looking and he knew it! His ego THRIVED on being the center of attention! He was so flirtatious, even when I was with him.. but he called it “ Just being friendly!” I was naïve, never thought he would act on it.. or maybe I kept my head in the sand not wanting to believe it? What you are feeling is normal. You are going through the 5 stages of grieving!! #1 DENIAL, #2 ANGER,#3 BARGAINING, #4 DEPRESSION, #5 ACCEPTANCE! Everyone that’s been hurt so deeply goes through them. The trick is, keep moving forward & don’t get stuck in any of them! Give yourself grace & time.. but not TOO MUCH time in each one of them! Then you will be ok! I know.. been there & done that!! 🩷
2026-03-21 20:19:04
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LauraAnn :
I’ve watched all of your videos and I have lived this exact situation. We are now divorced and he still denies his affair even though they are still talking/seeing each other. 2 yrs since he first left and been divorced since 10/1/25. I’m so so sorry!! It’s devastating.
2026-03-21 02:22:46
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mj1225scout :
I wish you the best. You and your children. You will get through this.
2026-03-24 21:53:29
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james :
it's what u don't know
2026-03-19 11:39:08
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63ioydb :
I am sorry you are dealing with this. All your feelings are healthy, the mental load, the trying to understand it is all normal. I hope you continue to try to heal. Having said that you are beautiful. He is the one who is losing and I can not wait to see your glow up.
2026-03-19 19:20:03
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