@girlthepoet: Avoidant attachment style people don’t always “break” no contact…they bend it. They orbit. A like on your story. A random “hey.” A meme that means nothing… but feels like everything. This is not reconnection. This is proximity without vulnerability. Avoidants struggle with direct emotional exposure, so instead of saying “I miss you,” they create low-risk contact points to pull you back into their orbit…without ever fully showing up. And if you respond? The cycle restarts. You get breadcrumbs. They get access. Nothing actually changes. If you’re in no contact, understand this: Not all communication is connection. Sometimes it’s just a way to keep you emotionally available while they stay emotionally unavailable. #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #avoidantattachmentissues #mentalhealthmatters #nocontact
The only thing you’ve shown me with these videos is that he and I are both avoidant. So that’s fun. 😩
2026-03-20 18:20:08
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🥐ait :
the sad songs on the stories…. it was so obvious it was related to me lol, i stayed no contact and am feeling a lot better and glad i didn’t reach out
2026-03-19 20:38:38
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Zoe :
What if he calls off no caller ID but when I answer he goes silent and hangs up
2026-05-13 22:31:58
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Mahatma Marcellus :
We don’t follow each other on social media
2026-03-21 03:36:28
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MajestyInTheDark :
Oh. Then I guess he didn’t care.
2026-03-19 18:45:51
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Sicillian :
„who is in no contact with you“ brother there is no such thing as no contact it is over
2026-03-27 15:22:48
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Uriel Ramirez5911 :
The way the push pull in a relationship or in no contact literally feels like at war with them and yourself. Constantly playing chess with each others emotions. These videos help but we ultimately have to heal our egos.
2026-03-19 23:21:50
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Asincrazy :
oh. I haven't interacted with their online presence since beginning of February. they reacted almost immediately to the first thing I posted since then.
2026-03-19 22:54:42
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♥︎ ✨️ Elle • Vee ✨️ ♥︎ :
I may have him blocked from everywhere...except work - so the playing of songs that we both enjoy and little comments here and there that sound like jabs...yep, he's trying to get my attention. Imma stay put though.
2026-03-19 16:43:04
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pyrodork :
How should you respond to orbiting?
2026-03-19 23:36:54
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T_Dez :
I don't even go on their social media or look them up. nothing.
2026-05-15 18:14:32
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_gypsysongbird_ :
Several months post break up....They change their profile picture to a photo that you took of them while you were together during an emotional and happy time. Like some weird form of nostalgia.
2026-03-21 05:12:28
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bernadette :
only way i reached out was via a police report
2026-03-20 01:01:04
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briela.ramirez :
Awwww my avoidant just disappeared completely 😭
2026-03-23 23:29:35
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Gio :
I will never embarrass myself for someone again
2026-04-12 06:19:21
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danielledScorpio :
He blocked me on everything so I don’t see it
2026-05-01 21:37:33
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___nohemyy :
I texted him, work related he didn’t respond when we haven’t spoken for a month so I blocked him and closed my social media.😌✨
2026-03-20 00:36:39
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Marci 🌷 :
She did all 3 of those things and I fell for it 😔
2026-05-14 04:46:51
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Shannon Rao :
Like exactly this 😩
2026-05-16 01:07:10
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kissmelucifer :
im amazed by the analysis but the question is HOW DO WE WIN
2026-04-09 00:41:48
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nadira :
He reached out at 6:52am on my bday after 2 years no contact. I feel like he knew I wouldn’t answer that early. And then when I called him back, he ghosted again. It’s been 3 weeks. What does this mean?!?!
2026-05-15 08:28:46
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Cheong 🙏🙏🙏 :
im an avoidant and i do none of these 😐
2026-03-28 08:57:29
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Fletch 🇬🇧 🏴 :
for me, No contact, I'm done so I will never see anything they post online because I've removed them, and if they are working on themselves, that's great for their future.
2026-03-28 08:50:04
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Emmajanepierce :
Check check and check 😒
2026-03-20 20:39:44
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