natalie louise
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Thursday 19 March 2026 17:38:27 GMT
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Pepelover :
5 years long distance and she abruptly cut things off when we started planning closing the distance and marriage.
2026-03-19 18:38:13
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_ma_tsu_ri_ :
Even at long distance, the “can we fall asleep on call” and “can we FaceTime rn” literally killed me inside
2026-03-22 13:34:22
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hackstock420 :
This happened to me. I bought the plane ticket and lost 500 dollars of non refundable tickets after she discarded me.
2026-03-19 20:47:38
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Alli G :
Yup, exactly what happened. Went to spend the weekend with her for the first time and the first day was incredible. The second day, I know the exact moment the vibe shifted and her walls went back up, then…discarded the moment I got home.
2026-03-19 18:44:08
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user28392048388 :
We were together for six months. On New Year’s Day, after I initiated the breakup, I removed him and his friends from my Instagram followers. When he saw that, he blocked me on every single platform, even minor apps like TikTok. The breakup happened like this: In mid-November, I went to his country to meet his parents and friends. In early December, he came to my city to meet mine. Everything seemed fine, but by the third or fourth day, his energy shifted, he clearly wanted to escape. I often felt like he was just observing my life rather than involving himself in it. When he went back to his country he seemed happy and asked what I wanted for Christmas. I told him I wanted a handwritten letter, the things he found hard to say out loud, I wanted him to write them down. He happily agreed. However, I discovered the letter was actually outsourced to ChatGPT; he just gave it prompts. After that discovery, I felt an immediate, physical exhaustion. I couldn't face him, but I couldn't confront him either, because I had found out by looking through his privacy. He felt the relationship cooling down. For the next two weeks, I kept our conversations shallow—just 'good morning' and 'what did you eat'—even though he continued sharing his life with me. He didn't understand why I had become so cold. As Valentine's Day approached, he said 'we are losing each other' and asked what was wrong. I told him my intuition felt the letter was AI-generated. He got very defensive, told me to 'just tear it up then,' and said if that’s what I thought, I shouldn't even read it. He was very agitated and said, 'Maybe we shouldn't be together.' We went back and forth for a few days. Eventually, he went three days without replying, so I initiated the breakup. The next day, he said he didn't want to end it. I agreed to talk over video that night. During the call, I was crying hysterically, but he completely avoided me. He told me he had to go to his Spanish class in ten minutes. He ignored my emotions entirely and just kept withdrawing. I was emotionally drained.
2026-03-20 06:57:27
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Ari :
I was the one saying I thought the distance was good for us, so we can have our own separate lives since we’re young and trying to adjust to being adults. They just said it was hard. They ended up def being avoidant so I thought that was strange, they couldn’t admit they needed that space I guess
2026-05-14 05:16:38
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Meowsaphat :
We love being miserable, don’t we?
2026-03-20 02:50:35
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/ᐠ｡ꞈ｡ᐟ\ :
as an avoidant I'm so scared it might happen
2026-03-20 10:00:34
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Letsthrowup :
this sort of sounds like my ex, after three years the opportunity of moving in together was handed to us on a gold platter and he ended the relationship, it became a big issue suddenly even though they wanted to live together for the first 2 years
2026-03-22 02:05:46
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CanadGarage :
I’m so happy I don’t have to deal with an avoidant anymore. I swear she kept me from the happiness I deserved.
2026-03-19 18:24:15
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seeyaabea :
Long distance doesn’t seem worth it, even to an avoidant—or at least to one, me. There’s far too much effort needed to sustain a relationship that is long distance and that in itself is a waste of time.
2026-03-20 21:51:39
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Joe M :
Wow this is exactly how it was for me and her. I thought this was my forever and then she dropped the bomb on me that left me so confused 💔💔
2026-03-20 03:07:01
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Mina :
I might be avoidant I guess
2026-03-22 12:40:32
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cle.jln :
Not true because you then have to pretend to be excited to see them when you actually preferred the distance
2026-03-20 16:06:28
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2R0TT3N :
No they don’t lmak
2026-03-24 11:33:47
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user7337919102020 :
unrelated but i love your energy and facial expressions
2026-03-20 18:49:05
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jnutz24 :
Yep.
2026-03-19 20:24:01
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amandacollects.optcg :
Literally the song “no one noticed” by the marias
2026-03-22 23:21:46
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NTNS :
I agree with you 100%
2026-03-20 13:06:39
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gin :
will you stop describing my love life in every video?
2026-03-26 11:59:30
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Lokane :
yeah it's weird, we were talking about moving to one place together for over 3yrs but rn when we could do it, he doesn't want to
2026-04-12 12:57:39
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Zé Pedro :
that was exactly what happened. first time she cancelled plans on the SAME day. a month later we were finally together and it was really weird, she wasnt look at me in the eyes, I was so sad... a few days later she discarted me
2026-03-19 18:02:18
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pocketsquiddy :
I love it because I don’t need to physically touch them that’s why. I can’t sustain having to do THAT with someone multiple times a week it’s absolutely not for me.
2026-03-21 11:23:51
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Cullen :
my ex was avoidant but we lived close to each other before she went across the country for college. she loved it in the sense of she could hangup anytime she felt overwhelmed, but she hated it just as much as
2026-03-21 00:45:14
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small-town mom :
My avoidant bf decided to take a job after 5 months together where he's gone Monday thru Friday
2026-03-20 03:42:27
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