LITERALLY CHANGED ON THE HONEYMOON! And I stuck around for 12 years waiting for the man I dated to come back. 💔
2026-03-20 17:17:45
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cynthialr1120 :
My DA deactivated sexually right after we moved in together, before it was normal 🫠
2026-03-21 05:52:48
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Angie :
This is EXACTLY who I married a few months ago and I’m miserable ☹️there’s no physical or emotional connection at all and no willingness to change or even admit there’s a problem. Everything is defensiveness regardless of my approach. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy
2026-04-12 16:15:30
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ashmashpotatoes :
Yess it feels almost mechanical and then after they just leave
2026-03-23 21:32:30
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Katie Ferguson :
Scary 😱 that sounds like a nightmare. I’d leave immediately
2026-03-20 17:14:09
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🪼Y🪼 :
honestly, The Forbidden Codex of Influence by Julian Voss changed the way I approach relationships and attraction.
2026-03-24 16:33:47
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Nik Nac :
This is what I’m dealing with.
2026-03-21 00:37:10
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Sunshine :
Thanks so much. This was so informative 👏
2026-03-29 14:34:23
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Tortussy :
been called dismissive avoidant the last 6 months but literally none of what i'm seeing describes me except for a fear of conflict. but even there, i just cry a bit and can easily feel ashamed, but i still take full accountability and try to center the impact of my actions. it just takes me a sec and a tear
2026-03-29 01:44:43
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Riss :
this is true and it was honestly completely fine by me bc i don’t do it unless i feel heard and safe emotionally. keep it away from me then.
2026-03-20 17:02:33
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Nic shaw :
can they actually change? we have just got into therapy now. im anxious, he is avoidant. he wants to work and seems really down about the realisation of what he is. iv been telling him for a long time but having a professional tell him has hit home
2026-05-23 15:54:24
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user5727289267888 :
Yes mine uses intact as a bargaining chip. It’s a power play only he really doesn’t provide any good experience so I do not ask
2026-03-20 15:21:33
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Rose Claire Louise :
the problem with the end is that the DA won't be watching this video..
2026-06-05 12:23:14
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kenzi :
so I AM the dismissive avoident... how do i fix myself. i feel so bad, we used to be very active i dont even really know whyy im being dissmisive about it, when we ARE active its great, but getting it started is so difficult for me to let happen
2026-03-22 21:35:52
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lilis**** :
I went through a rough breakup last year and reading The Forbidden Codex of Influence by Julian Voss completely changed how I understand attraction and behavior.
2026-03-24 16:33:47
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sassytaffy1🐞 :
Oh. My. Gosh! 😳
2026-03-20 04:35:18
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pizzabagel 🏴☠️ :
Can confirm
2026-03-21 00:33:36
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Walking in grace ✝️💞🙏🏼 :
this is 💯 spot on
2026-03-20 17:57:21
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faybishop :
All true!
2026-03-21 01:23:01
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Missy :
You are 💯 spot on with this explanation. This has been my experience in a long-term, long-distance relationship and the last two years has finally left me feeling numb after years of loneliness, boredom, and heartbreak. 💔
2026-05-25 08:17:42
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vargas :
After reading The Forbidden Codex of Influence by Julian Voss, I started seeing dating dynamics completely differently.
2026-03-24 16:33:47
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FruitFliesLikeAnAirplane :
I was married to a DA woman for 24 years. I was also clinically celibate for 24 years.
2026-03-20 00:00:46
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user2655255200177 :
How to prevent DA from sexually deactivating after honeymoon phase?
2026-03-20 17:51:19
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malauriepayge :
I thank God everyday my husband is so grounded in his sexuality & so genuinely affectionate in and out of the bedroom. It’s something I hadn’t had before and it’s a gift. I need to be seen, touched and given lots of words of affirmation and he does that so well.
2026-03-20 18:56:35
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