Dr. Nicole LePera
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Friday 20 March 2026 14:54:16 GMT
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asmrva :
this is why my reiki says love for me is so tied to fear
2026-07-11 15:17:56
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Gluten-free Goddess :
at almost 50, I finally stopped chasing my father's love. I know he loves me, but not the way I know I deserve. and he's not capable of changing at this point, but i am
2026-03-20 18:25:12
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Claire Paprocki :
I was adopted by two lesbians 😭 no hate to them but man do I have daddy issues
2026-03-20 18:24:57
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LazygHomestead :
I have had debilitating anxiety all my life. I met my dad for the first time last March. He is a huge part of my life now. I'm 43 and I have a DAAAAD!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰
2026-03-20 14:57:50
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Virtual EMDR Therapy :
When you don't have that "safety net" feeling early on, you might feel like you have to be your own hero 24/7, which is an exhausting way to live.
2026-03-23 08:08:38
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danieladoni143 :
And fear leads to anger
2026-03-20 18:33:02
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Steph B. Living ✨ :
I had an emotionally absent father, but also at 18 I found out he wasn’t actually my father. I’m all messed up. Double wammy
2026-03-29 16:19:41
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CelinaRollins :
Damn, why did you call me out like that???
2026-03-21 16:19:26
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Sophie:) :
My dad died when I was 6, would that have a similar emotional effect as abandonment?
2026-03-23 06:52:54
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aliciacostanza4 :
my dad was always at bar w friends he was never there for me and I'm extremely fearful of the whole world. I'm surprised I found a good partner and been married for 25 yrs. it's a miracle really
2026-03-20 15:36:39
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Redoncue :
Omg! Can we talk more about this?!?! I’ve explained it to others in so many ways so they can understand. But yes, growing up abandoned just means you have no backup. No one to go to when shit hits the fan. No group to build you up believing in you or who help you understand what’s happening. Not having that unwavering belief that your parents love you - you’re just so afraid all the time. I’ve only been able to achieve the other state a few times in my life. Where I’ve had a good enough peer group to kinda feel that support. It’s actually quite liberating. You’d think you’d need the group more you actually need them less because you carry them with you in your mind and you know they won’t go away or leave so should you ever need them, they’re not far away. I wish ppl understand anxiety and fear better. I hate that they really want anything to do with you or even trying to understand. I have to hide a lot of my fears and hiding just makes them worse.
2026-03-20 21:43:58
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Erin :
I’m worried for all my kids because of my ex not being there and then being absent for over 6 years and he was just found decreased. I don’t want them to suffer because of it.
2026-03-22 14:52:11
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Amie Hart35 :
Are you callin me Elsa
2026-03-21 00:10:45
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🧿 Marie🪬 :
I am the abandoned daughter. Fear and anxiety was my baseline. It’s gotten somewhat better as I’ve aged but it’s generally always bubbling just beneath the surface.
2026-03-21 17:40:15
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👙 String Mije :
how can we help out kids ?
2026-04-01 12:30:03
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Jasmine9719 :
nah I'm good.
2026-03-23 22:35:48
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Laguna’s Self :
Which we can heal from, if we choose to let it go and learn to trust, ourselves firstly.
2026-03-20 17:56:04
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c_falk :
Then fear is my emotional baseline. What do I do?
2026-03-21 01:09:38
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Dr. Courtney | 🧠 Therapist :
True.
2026-03-20 15:24:43
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Julie :
You didn’t hold my hand first with this one 🥹
2026-03-22 06:00:05
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amy m :
So true- if he had only known how much like him I was.
2026-03-21 18:41:28
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🇨🇦 Tugg 🇺🇦 :
Died when I was 4.
2026-03-27 22:51:21
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Mna_37 :
How can we heal this
2026-04-11 10:21:29
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Fragmented Psyche :
How do we help a child heal from this? My son is 12 and this is him :/
2026-03-24 12:13:28
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Ugh_I_dont_wanna :
I can’t wait for your book to come out I have pre ordered and it’s going to do me wonders after all these years I strongly believe I will find answers in the book
2026-03-20 17:33:52
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