@theholisticpsychologist: If you relate, you need my new book. Link in bio!

Lane.990 :

Somebody tell me how to fix it. Being aware of it is not enough to keep it from

suekingsbury :

yup, this was my marriage. now im divorced and im not interested in another relationship.

magpiehope :

“You learn love is pain and rejection is romance.” 🫣🤯I need to unpack that one!

Peeps :

"Addiction to potential". You really should have held my hand before you said this

Kelly :

This is why I follow you. Thank you.

Kerstin Covert :

Bpd, and audhd. I try not to do this w my kids but having down to let my nervous system recharge is a must. But I also have allowed for therapy bc I know I have these disorders.

NCRealtorLEIGH🤓ILM🌴🧋🏄🏽‍♀️ :

Yes. Imagine they care for me as I care for them. I am often wrong.

Katherine B :

Explains soooo much

Michelle Diamond💎 :

Glad i broke this cycle

marsebob26 :

The whole “you date a man like your father” thing seemed bogus to me until I found myself in a nine year relationship with a Jekyll and Hyde that valued his friends more than his family. I HATED the way my dad treated my mom and there I was in the exact same relationship.

plant_mama_ :

😭😭😭 i just want to thank you. you probably will never see this. but i found your work about 6-7 yrs ago, postpartum. THANK YOU for helping share this info. You helped change my life.

kittyslick04 :

This just summed up my entire childhood and relationships in my 20s.

ZOE Yoga Lifestyle :

I have a friend who does this every single time and when I tell her it’s love bombing! Watch out! She explains it away 😳 It’s so sad to watch people keep the same cycle while thinking it’s different

Emily Andrade :

How do I stop?

bromero229 :

Now married 22 years! I want out but how????

Darcee :

Sarah Stroud Mace :

💯 I feel this

user8406955709608 :

Wow- I feel seen 😳

SaltGhost :

🤗🤗🤗 trying to break this habit!

beccadobe :

What do we do about it 😢

OnwardnUpward🌻 :

Wish I had done the work before I got married 😳

Dear Rachel :

Real

jacinthafield :

Yes ❤️❤️❤️

Rocky Mountain Minted 🇨🇦 :

As soon as I saw this video I immediately got your book. I’m only a couple of hours in and am thoroughly enjoying it. Thank you so much 💕💕