Opallauryn
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Saturday 21 March 2026 16:51:11 GMT
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Noah :
I think one of the biggest things for me is that no matter the intentionality or the reasons behind the behavior, holding other people accountable is one of the most important things we can do. I think a lot of people take others holding them accountable as a personal attack, which only vastly limits their growth as a person. I prioritize taking in criticism and truly evaluating it and trying to understand it rather than immediately trying to defend myself. It sounds so simple but it’s so rare to find in other people and I can confidently say that it’s made me so so much happy as a person and has repaired and helped many of my relationships. “I saw raised this way” is really just another way of saying, “I don’t want to self reflect and do the inner work to change since I’m comfortable just the way I am and don’t value your feedback enough to take it to heart”
2026-03-22 16:35:49
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Alex :
When my husband began to unpack all this it really made him so much more happier and fulfilled. He is still learning and unpacking, but seeing him work on that while giving our son a safe space to learn and grow and teaching him to respect and value women is just incredible.
2026-04-12 02:49:58
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Marcus Tutor :
can someone suggest resources to take this journey?
2026-03-22 22:58:19
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CARLY's CREATIONS🧶🌸 :
im listening to it like a podcast😂💗
2026-03-22 13:30:13
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Irene Khan | IG: @irenesarah :
We weren’t taught anything either, we taught ourselves!
2026-04-30 18:18:31
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Max |Overall Oaf| AuDHD 🇨🇦💄 :
The moment I figured my current self out was so freeing! I remember thinking "Wow, why do people WANT to follow social scripts?"
2026-05-15 14:22:15
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the_joy_we_give :
I like the Christmas shirt 🥰
2026-03-22 14:18:43
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TankGirl420 :
Thank you for this 🥹🥲😌🙏🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻♥️♥️
2026-05-06 19:48:47
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Nicole Schwabenbauer :
our parents raise us and sometimes don't teach us the best habits or low key traumatise us but at some point you have to decide okay but that's when I was younger, I'm older now, I know better and now it's on me if I continue to act a certain way because of my parents. we can't be 30+ and still use that as a reason as that point its on us and not our parents any more
2026-03-22 13:25:10
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sccorle :
Your video on mental load is still living in my brain - finally a word for my experience in every relationship with a man in my life.
2026-03-21 18:32:03
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kanon06 :
I as a women blamed my childhood /raising for a while as to why I struggled a lot. but one day I got tired of that and changed.
2026-03-22 18:35:12
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SeaRabbit :
We are all colonized by ideas of gender & society. We all need to de-colonize ourselves. Thank you
2026-04-12 22:18:06
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oapakl :
Golden words
2026-03-21 17:50:21
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Meg :
Yessss
2026-03-22 13:33:08
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Anita B. Wildmone :
SO MUCH THIS!!!
2026-03-22 12:49:57
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Memyself&I :
It’s not your fault when you’re socialized into it. But as soon as you become aware of it; it is 100% your responsibility to better yourself
2026-04-26 15:23:40
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frugalhousewife :
"I am an early childhood educator" YAS we love to listen someone qualified
2026-04-29 17:18:01
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user2524982632801 :
I haven't been able to put this into words myself but this was beautifully said.
2026-03-30 14:55:44
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Indi Pendent :
Private school it is
2026-03-21 17:00:23
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shiddhxhxiw :
Atleast provide an example of some behaviors ur talking about, instead of being so vague
2026-03-22 13:42:36
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DJ T Cup :
👏👏👏👏👏👏
2026-04-19 17:01:12
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Gary Michael :
✨💗
2026-03-23 17:52:28
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LetteciaK :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-04-16 12:07:13
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K N :
😳😳😳
2026-04-16 12:48:04
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Melanie Kelly :
Excuse me, why is is the mothers fault? I think it’s more the fathers fault for not showing what a real man should be. Always blaming a woman no matter what
2026-03-22 11:13:19
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