@atsedescarseth: This was a hard watch. Jealousy and Envy are normal emotions (meaning their is often a valid root cause that deserves to be examined and worked through, they don’t happen in a vacuum, this is NOT condoning the projection of these emotions). There are clinical treatment plans available for both. Spiritual bypassing has a definition, a history, and a body of research behind it. This is what it looks like, what it does to people, and why it matters, especially for anyone who grew up in spaces where their emotions were treated as spiritually dangerous. Leahy, R.L. (2026, March 6). Jealousy: An Emotional Schema Model. Journal of Clinical Psychology. DOI: 10.1002/jclp.70122. PMID: 41792995. Affiliation: American Institute for Cognitive Therapy, Weill-Cornell Medical College, New York. Welwood, J. (1984). Referenced and confirmed in: Motiño, A., Saiz, J., et al. (2021). Cross-Cultural Analysis of Spiritual Bypass: A Comparison Between Spain and Honduras. Frontiers in Psychology, 12, 658739. PMC8134675. Gardner, F.L., and Moore, Z.E. (2008). Understanding clinical anger and violence: the anger avoidance model. Behavior Modification. PMID: 18614696. Parrott, W.G. (1991). Distinguishing the experiences of envy and jealousy. PubMed PMID: 8326472. #spiritualbypassing #therapistsontiktok #religioustrauma #traumarecovery #emotionalintelligence
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craftybabymillennial :
humans really don't like feeling uncomfortable, like ever.
2026-03-22 12:54:00
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GodComplex :
Even baby’s get jealous lol has she seen a 10month old see their mom holding another baby? It’s a normal emotion
2026-03-21 22:49:52
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Island girl :
I would love to hear you talk more about envy. I struggle with this and believe it stems from deep rooted grief of “what could have been” because of traumatic events that that happened in my life.
2026-11-06 13:04:38
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Morgann | Ventura Hairstylist :
Dear God I thought I had a misplaced brick
2026-03-22 05:28:44
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Jayisme :
Jealousy has taught me so much about where I lack and what I want from life. When I'm jealous I take the time time now to reflect on myself and do the self work toward what ever I am looking for in life.
2026-03-22 13:35:46
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kayla?! :
everything can’t be the devil!! i’m getting irritated
2026-03-23 03:14:05
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LDAParis :
Jealousy is normal but how you handle it is the problem.
2026-03-22 18:17:25
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chaela 🤍 :
As soon as I heard “delivered” i checked out
2026-03-22 16:27:43
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Alicia 🤎 :
I genuinely dislike when people demonize human emotions, it farther deepens shame. Apart of my foundational therapeutic approach is acceptance (ACT). We need to work towards a place of acceptance first before solutions are even a thing. You articulated this message beautifully! Thank you!
2026-03-22 13:55:24
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MomofdragonsRN :
“God has a plan” was the phrase given to me with my infertility.
2026-03-21 23:26:52
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callmesweetzz :
Jealousy is definitely a human emotion
2026-03-22 17:35:15
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★★★ :
I am so sick of the constant "good" and "bad" classifications of emotions. All emotions have a purpose! Even the uncomfortable ones!!
2026-03-22 22:11:31
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davsdynasty18 :
Jealousy and anger r both very normal emotions…refusing to work on them is the issue
2026-03-23 11:52:12
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Sarcasmandbutterflies :
As a therapist, her take is inaccurate. We definitely have a treatment protocol for jealousy and envy and it’s definitely part of our human emotions. They both, along with anger, have purpose in our lives. Thank you for highlight this.
2026-03-22 13:50:14
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johantheamerican🇺🇸🇭🇹 :
Jealousy is super normal lol
2026-03-22 15:21:34
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vlacei🍬 :
Babies get jealous. It’s a natural human emotion.
2026-03-23 03:11:10
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Island girl :
Also I want to thank you for actually imparting research based information and spending time talking through it.
2026-11-06 13:08:21
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Ahdya :
Not everything is demonic.
2026-03-22 18:33:09
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Sof 🍉 :
If you feel jealousy, you just have to look inside you and see what you are yearning for, then that's what you are working on. Jealousy is just our discomfort in our reality and you manage it by changing your life.
2026-05-19 16:03:10
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a young black man :
reason 3,466 why i stop listening to random peoples takes and just ask a professional cus what😭
2026-03-22 11:29:01
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tone :
heard “spirit” and instantly knew where this was going
2026-03-23 17:43:01
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iheartjamalmurray :
uh i’m jealous of the people on yachts and private jets. hello
2026-03-22 17:47:05
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Kelz :
Girl I thought I was on the wrong side again 😭
2026-03-23 03:57:22
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Alex :
jealousy and envy are human emotions, what you do with those feelings is what matters.
2026-03-22 17:13:33
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