@opallauryn: Replying to @YouDontSay👀 this is actual violence playing out in real time. No. A partner should not owe their body so that you feel “engaged” enough to do the BARE MINIMUM of what you are supposed to do as a partner. This comment is indicative of a much larger and violence conversation of men’s entitlement to women’s bodies. Men. THIS IS NOT OKAY THINKING. #separation #relationships #men #mentalload #emotionalintimacy

Madison :

Yeah I’ve tried this and it doesn’t work.

GamGam :

jrixxa :

Before my bf and I got together I said to him that men think they’re getting a deal by making the woman pay bills and do all of the housework and child rearing, but what they’re really doing is showing her that she doesn’t need him. He’s showing her that she can do it all alone and would have less work to do if he wasn’t around.

kristina_with_a_kay :

Did this for 10 years. It sucks.

S :

this this this

Chic'_and_Destroy :

Kicking back saying "well 🦆 my 🍆 and I'll think about it" is NOT going to get him anywhere but with other men.

jtottenham34 :

Because parenting an adult is so sexy, I must have him. 😂

🍉CKingArtDesign 🍉 :

I used to believe that I owed that to my partner, even if there was little to no intellectual intimacy. Used to.

Izzy :

LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK

emily :

“You owe me” excuse I owe you because i asked you to do something that benefits the family????

Sassy and Glassy ❌ :

Totally!!! I have now LOCKED UP my nether regions and am DONE!

Low :

JFC

ophelia_the_fair :

Eh-ver!!!

rachel :

Holy shit. What a disgusting comment 😭

psumama2 :

Say it LOUDER

Recon2024 :

Yea and I've done this....its nonsense..il never do it again

Max |Overall Oaf| AuDHD 🇨🇦💄 :

Bruh. Some people are wiiiild 💀

sbmgrqpcs25 :

👍👍👍👍👍

Katie Does Reiki :

No amount of work or sex is going to make men like that step up as a functional adult. They want to live as children in the house and throw tantrums when naturally all that tanks a woman’s drive.

dysheveled :

This is grape culture. Sex shouldn’t be transactional.

JulieMarie :

I love how they always default to “how much sex are you having?” WE ARE NOT A PRODUCT TO BE USED!!!

Loven'Lore(TEAM BLACK) :

sex is not a need. sex is a want.

parkandpose :

Realizing that men truly think that they need sex to have emotional regulation or emotional maturity has been astounding as an adult. Sex and chores/housework/adult responsibilities should not be connected.