sara Beth
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theforwardthinker :
Sara I’m glad you’re able to vent out all these horrible feelings. It’s hard but I want you to know that things do get better. You seem like a wonderful woman and I’m sorry you’re struggling.
2026-03-22 19:26:20
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🎀Christi S. Manley🎀 :
Oprah once had a therapist on her show that said it takes half the length of the relationship to heal. When I got divorced after a 20 year relationship, I remember that and it was such a daunting thought. I mean, 10 years? Really?! But, it took about eight and that was with intense, weekly therapy. It’s a lot. Now, I may have delayed that because the first 1-2 years I refused to admit that I was not ok. Then, I burned my life to the ground around year 3. And it was in the rebuilding that the healing started and progressed. I’m still not “healed” but I am remarried to a great man who heals me every day by doing and being who he is and ya know, idk if I’ll ever be all the way healed. It was a lot. Just this morning, a friend called to tell me about her sister getting a divorce due to cheating and within 30 minutes the flashback feelings were real. I was right back in 2015 feeling all those feelings. It surprised me but also not really. Anyway, you can go on with your life while you’re healing.
2026-03-25 20:07:33
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gloriabingmon2 :
Take your time but do healthy things. The habits will be the basis for the work you will do later and it’s a great distraction to all the things you will be seeing as you all go on with your lives.
2026-03-22 18:14:41
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Cindy :
I think you have to grieve before you can heal....there is no timeline for grieving ...take whatever time you need, and do what makes you happy,not what other people say you should do....
2026-03-22 23:29:19
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Lucretia Taylor :
Sara I pray for u ever morning 🙏🏻😃
2026-03-24 00:56:56
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Rogue_in_flip_flops :
A lot of the one healing looks like curling up with a blanket and crying
2026-03-23 03:59:43
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April Donnell :
I can't wait to see you healed and happy! You will be unstoppable 🥰
2026-05-11 15:47:15
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mmbota1 :
It’s normal. It takes time to heal. That way you can become stronger.
2026-03-23 20:02:35
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California Girl :
Your definitely grieving the loss of your marriage. And it’s real and it’s gonna take you a while. Be kind to yourself. ♥️
2026-03-26 03:46:44
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Eli :
You are beautiful! He’s Loss
2026-03-25 20:10:57
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chocolate :
What ever people say. Before him there was you. And you will always be there to the end. You are worth all of your time and effort. God bless
2026-03-22 23:56:17
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April_MSN,RN❤️ :
I’m right In The middle of all this and major confusion if there is any hope.
2026-03-24 01:25:47
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Jen :
You are grieving everything you’ve known for the past 20 years. It’s okay to not be okay some days.
2026-03-23 18:07:51
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Silke Ewald :
One step at the time.
2026-03-22 22:24:54
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1seekingwisdom :
You can not heal in the same environment that broke you. That is so true. You are not okay. You are not going to be okay for a long while & that's okay. Healing will begin once the divorce is over & you settle into your new normal. You will never be able to heal the damage, but you can learn from it & overcome it. There will come a time when it no longer hurts, but there is no way around the lesson. There is life after betrayal. What that will look like depends on how you handle the shock. Focus on what matters which is you, your children, & your future. Prepare for the fight of your life because that is, in fact, what this is
2026-04-04 20:50:41
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Allum Tsehay :
same. its been 10 months. healing is not linear. some days im ok. some days im struggling.
2026-03-23 19:17:03
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user5806913355630 :
Take all the time you need to grieve, your probably thinking if only and I could’ve should’ve would’ve then things might’ve been different. There’s nothing you could’ve done he knew what he was doing and did it anyway. take it one day at a time make it about you. You’re all that matters now you will come out of it in your time. He will continue to be the same person (unfaithful) only with someone else. You deserve better 💐
2026-03-24 14:17:38
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ladyvmg :
I’m praying for your heart and mind to heal 🙏
2026-03-23 02:07:03
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Jenn Scott :
I listen to that podcast as well . I’m still living with my ex, my ex spends weekends with his girlfriend. We are 18 months in and I can’t wait for it to be over ! One day at a time !
2026-03-22 22:56:23
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Nina Marie :
You are going through, or will go though, a period of time called “liminal space.” It’s not an easy space to navigate because your old chapter hasn’t ended and you’re new chapter hasn’t begun. But it is an amazing opportunity of growth, albeit sometimes painful. Wishing you the best.
2026-03-24 01:01:37
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jillybean :
You are going thru this with you. I found out in Jan my husband if 35 yrs been having affair with his coworker for 3 yrs and still going on. He seems to be going on his life as usual and he didn’t have a care in world. We are going thru a divorce. I’m trying to focus on myself but it’s hard. But are stories are so similar. I do get a
2026-04-11 23:25:36
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JillAtPoeticGold :
Sending you love & strength ❤️
2026-03-23 01:28:54
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LIBBY :
It takes time and there’s nothing you can do but go thru it. It hurts and then it gets better. Self help videos etc and walking walking walking is what helped me. 2 years later and I’m better & so
2026-03-22 19:39:57
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Demetra Conklin :
You are so lovely💖
2026-03-23 00:39:13
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NCNative910 :
Everyone heals differently. Don’t rush it. Take your time. You need to heal before you put yourself back out there and that will be a while before you are whole again.
2026-03-22 18:07:02
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