@haleykloha: The perspective of who you’re listening to matters a lot. Do they operate from an intersectional framework? Or do they quote research that recognizes its own limitations? Mutual and bidirectional abuse doesn’t exist within domestic violence frameworks because it’s about a power imbalance. Situational couple violence isn’t considered DV or IPV. #taylorfrankiepaul #domesticabuseawareness #education #intersectionalfeminism

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spademorningstarmusic
Spade Morningstar :
This take lacks the intersectionality you mention.
2026-03-24 19:45:31
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writing_vesta
Writing Vesta :
With my chest—THANK YOU!!!!
2026-03-23 01:22:19
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johngalt6767
johngalt6767 :
I think it’s not 50/50
2026-03-23 23:44:31
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Apple User349992 :
You said absolutely nothing
2026-03-24 14:21:39
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paranoid_jas
paranoid_ :
I agree with what you’re saying but the field needs to change its terminology otherwise the general public will never to grasp it. Abuse ≠ violence is already too complicated for most.
2026-03-25 04:11:40
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codyschwarz3
Cody Schwarz501 :
These comments are concerning yall 😭 please reevaluate, I promise you’re not always right about everything.
2026-03-24 12:00:59
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herrekitchen
Herkitchen :
Please keep posting your knowledge
2026-03-23 05:50:09
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dizzlej121
JLo :
Thanks for educating me on this!!
2026-03-23 14:48:54
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nofsleftinsomniac
nofsleftinsomniac🇵🇸 :
💯 thank you.
2026-03-23 11:19:31
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giannaloveandlight
Gianna Rackham :
YES YES YES!!!
2026-03-23 03:21:22
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jordanbsteph
Jordan ✨ :
Spot on 💔
2026-03-23 06:30:45
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sasha_glass
Sasha :
It’s absolutely maddening. Thank you for talking about this.
2026-03-23 16:37:58
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kt.myr
KT :
Thank you 🙏🏻💯
2026-03-23 05:18:59
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vic ⋆⟢ :
THANK YOU.
2026-03-23 07:26:19
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crazyneights
Neight King :
No matter what situation Taylor’s actions were not acceptable.
2026-03-27 14:40:00
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kaicfox
kaileigh 🍉 :
so what about the kid in the room.
2026-03-24 18:01:55
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unconditionalcare
Unconditional Care 🧠💫 :
Licensed therapist here, my understanding is there can be bidirectional violence, but not bidirectional abuse. There can only be one abuser which is the one that has the need for power and control.
2026-03-23 04:25:40
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wfhgirl981
Abby :
I’ve seen so many therapists pushing the idea of mutual abuse and it’s so upsetting and triggering
2026-03-23 00:46:33
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johngalt6767
johngalt6767 :
Wait so you mean the patriarchy threw the stool?
2026-03-23 23:46:24
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user080639429
凌江 :
Thank you! The amount of “therapists” giving a sided opinion with Dakota is WILD to me
2026-03-23 05:34:34
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xdanichex
xDaniChex :
As someone who works in IPV im gonna push back a bit here. I think its important to recognize there are multiple models we can look at this through and the Duluth (power and control) is one model (and a good one). but it is not the only one and other models exist because we observe instances of dv where power/control isnt the base motivation. its important to look at instances like this through all available models and not just assume one is the "most right" because no lense is perfect. so its not fair to fully discount bidirectional abuse or just consider the man as the primary victim.
2026-03-23 04:17:02
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phillysail
Philly Sail :
Ok but only if you recognize the data that the incidence of abuse is actually closer to evenly split between genders according to multiple international studies
2026-03-24 23:00:13
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