@haleykloha: The perspective of who you’re listening to matters a lot. Do they operate from an intersectional framework? Or do they quote research that recognizes its own limitations? Mutual and bidirectional abuse doesn’t exist within domestic violence frameworks because it’s about a power imbalance. Situational couple violence isn’t considered DV or IPV. #taylorfrankiepaul #domesticabuseawareness #education #intersectionalfeminism
This take lacks the intersectionality you mention.
2026-03-24 19:45:31
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Writing Vesta :
With my chest—THANK YOU!!!!
2026-03-23 01:22:19
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johngalt6767 :
I think it’s not 50/50
2026-03-23 23:44:31
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Apple User349992 :
You said absolutely nothing
2026-03-24 14:21:39
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paranoid_ :
I agree with what you’re saying but the field needs to change its terminology otherwise the general public will never to grasp it. Abuse ≠ violence is already too complicated for most.
2026-03-25 04:11:40
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Cody Schwarz501 :
These comments are concerning yall 😭 please reevaluate, I promise you’re not always right about everything.
2026-03-24 12:00:59
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Herkitchen :
Please keep posting your knowledge
2026-03-23 05:50:09
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JLo :
Thanks for educating me on this!!
2026-03-23 14:48:54
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nofsleftinsomniac🇵🇸 :
💯 thank you.
2026-03-23 11:19:31
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Gianna Rackham :
YES YES YES!!!
2026-03-23 03:21:22
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Jordan ✨ :
Spot on 💔
2026-03-23 06:30:45
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Sasha :
It’s absolutely maddening. Thank you for talking about this.
2026-03-23 16:37:58
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KT :
Thank you 🙏🏻💯
2026-03-23 05:18:59
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vic ⋆⟢ :
THANK YOU.
2026-03-23 07:26:19
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Neight King :
No matter what situation Taylor’s actions were not acceptable.
2026-03-27 14:40:00
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kaileigh 🍉 :
so what about the kid in the room.
2026-03-24 18:01:55
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Unconditional Care 🧠💫 :
Licensed therapist here, my understanding is there can be bidirectional violence, but not bidirectional abuse. There can only be one abuser which is the one that has the need for power and control.
2026-03-23 04:25:40
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Abby :
I’ve seen so many therapists pushing the idea of mutual abuse and it’s so upsetting and triggering
2026-03-23 00:46:33
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johngalt6767 :
Wait so you mean the patriarchy threw the stool?
2026-03-23 23:46:24
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凌江 :
Thank you! The amount of “therapists” giving a sided opinion with Dakota is WILD to me
2026-03-23 05:34:34
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xDaniChex :
As someone who works in IPV im gonna push back a bit here. I think its important to recognize there are multiple models we can look at this through and the Duluth (power and control) is one model (and a good one). but it is not the only one and other models exist because we observe instances of dv where power/control isnt the base motivation. its important to look at instances like this through all available models and not just assume one is the "most right" because no lense is perfect. so its not fair to fully discount bidirectional abuse or just consider the man as the primary victim.
2026-03-23 04:17:02
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Philly Sail :
Ok but only if you recognize the data that the incidence of abuse is actually closer to evenly split between genders according to multiple international studies
2026-03-24 23:00:13
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