@aishamarienoelle: #gender #dating #patriarchy

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hyperstick201
Hyper Stick :
sorry chat i just really like info dumping :(
2026-03-27 05:04:12
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king.juju.got.ban
King JuJu Got Banned :
that's why I don't go out much or when I do I tend to keep to myself. I don't wanna be a bother to anyone's good time. having bad social anxiety already just makes it worse I guess.
2026-03-23 20:55:49
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achooloo
Bedside Table :
I think I am actually pretty good at the conversation and back-and-forth stuff 🙂👍 I just have depression lol 💀
2026-03-22 21:50:24
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calebramos777
Airheaded Aviator :
As a AuDHD guy, I have the opposite challenges, especially with strangers.
2026-03-23 18:07:53
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barnaclebarry
Tallon :
I’ve always thought I had a horrid perception of social cues but I think of all this stuff 😭 maybe I’m not the worst
2026-05-17 06:08:19
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rationixx
Dude :
The only time I end up feeling like things get awkward is when I meet someone. I never know what to do, hug or wave or handshake or whatever. It’s worse when we see each other from a ways a way and were just staring while we inch towards each other.
2026-03-22 21:16:16
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quieroguero
güero (he/him) :
lowkey thank you
2026-03-26 14:54:26
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fee_fi_fo_fin
Feenj :
I usually try to check in when I’m talking to people about something I don’t assume they know just in case they already do
2026-05-19 21:28:26
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daria.unco
🌻 Daria 🌻 :
Yes girl I have the SAME PET PEEVE!!😭😮‍💨
2026-03-22 21:23:14
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wispy.cirrus
Cirrus :
You guys are talking to people? I just listen in on conversations I’m not really apart of
2026-05-06 03:26:35
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sowren9
🍉Wren🍉 :
Glad to say I think I am doing well and already doing these!
2026-04-29 17:30:08
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morgrem161
morgrem :
ill stop assuming what people dont know when my accuracy dips below 99.0% ✌️
2026-05-04 16:43:31
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itsalishanow
Alisha :
More tips, please! Literally didn’t know I was doing this until you said something😅
2026-03-23 20:16:23
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skinneybob8
Skinneybob :
Love your hair btw
2026-04-07 08:58:24
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bighydrogen
BigHydrogen :
thanks
2026-05-10 02:36:01
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kouka.fr
kouka.fr :
appreciate it
2026-04-25 20:27:43
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ana.loglady
Ana LogLady :
Heavy on the asking questions, look for points of connection more than display. -And when you find a point of common interest delve into that 👍
2026-03-23 19:13:49
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blerdybytes
BlerdyBytes :
I'm part of the 20%, and I agree. I also don't think it's gender exclusive. I know many men have talked about how women don't ask questions on the dating apps, for example. I also think that instead of being straight rude or avoidant, a middle ground could just be pointing out what the man is doing like how you're doing on this tiktok. People can learn and grow without people being rude to them 🤷
2026-03-23 14:53:06
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kourtneyreallifes
Kourtney Reallife Scruggs :
It’s that you’re probably the first person we’ve had the opportunity to talk to about the thing we’re talking about. I mean, the alternative is that we just allow you to talk and add very little to the conversation because we have nothing to add.
2026-03-23 19:44:36
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leather_jacket1
DaVarie Halliburton :
This is a people thing, it’s just framed differently between genders in my opinion
2026-04-12 04:57:32
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pewpewsamsam
Samuel :
So I’m a man I get and agree w everything but just to put some nuance in the first part about ”having a monologue” I totally agree that it’s rude if you don’t know each other/ aren’t friends but I don’t think that maybe it could be like a safe space for some men to talk about things that they don’t feel secure w w the ppl in their life and I think that honestly many more ppl should talk more about their passions w ppl they trust bc it’s healthy (obv they should make space by asking questions to the other as well and letting the other person “take the stage”, but I also feel as though women should be able to feel comfortable in having “monologues” or taking up space in convos cause it’s so important! And I think that 2 long “monologues” do make a dialogue. Just putting my take on that part. Sorry if I misunderstood or misinterpreted the way you were describing it. But I totally agree w the message/vid and don’t mean to belittle!
2026-03-22 21:39:53
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shellystiktoktoday
Shelly :
I said to one guy on a 1st date - you’ve just talked for ages - (was over 30 mins 😳) and he looked surprised then said - ‘but I’ve had such an interesting life’ 🫠
2026-03-24 16:25:32
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totallyahater
Totallyahater :
There’s gotta be more, none of these apply to me
2026-03-23 13:38:27
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55555_4444
5-4 :
Idk if this is a gender thing but as a man I have the exact opposite pet peeve about assuming information. I hate when someone is talking about something and I feel like I have to constantly ask for more context or information
2026-03-24 02:21:44
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