@burned_notbroken: their feelings didn’t matter until they inconvenienced you #relationshipburnout #emotionalburnout #burnedoutpursuer #relationshiprepair #separation

xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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den_gard
Den Gard :
Well spoken. And let’s not forget the element of humiliation.
2026-03-22 23:09:03
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osully1768
OSully1768 :
How do you eliminate the feeling of resentment?!?
2026-03-23 00:38:15
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svftrainer
svftrainer :
how do you know how much time do you just wait on them to reach out to you. I really love what you're saying it makes a lot of sense and it's really helping me out to understand but I'm having trouble knowing what to do
2026-03-22 23:32:29
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ajfarra
Aj Farra :
i didnt realize she was having to pursue me. i was raised much different than her. i was raised in a really rough place. i was loving the way i knew how. im learning to love right tho for myself. and hopefully she will realize that and want to work on things slowly with me
2026-03-26 03:26:07
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jonathonchapman5
Jonathon Chapman :
What if they live in a different city (3 hrs away) we’ve been in long distance for a year. Broken up only a week. I’ve been reflecting, putting in the work (therapy, books, etc.) but how am I supposed to show consistency and emotional safety from afar when we aren’t communicating?
2026-04-15 02:13:39
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kansasman89
KC :
Can I PM you?
2026-03-25 15:17:24
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bombshellinjector
TX Bombshell Injector 💉👄 :
How do I get through the time? I go to the gym already. This no contact is a struggle.
2026-05-03 13:39:21
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jonijowel
Jonijowel :
I feel like I was on the way to be BOP and she was also BOP or avoidant, I can’t really put my finger on it but a lot of what you say is also very relatable to my side
2026-05-03 09:32:25
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breeeezy007
breskii :
these videos put so much into perspective for me
2026-03-24 06:59:16
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joey95673
joey9567 :
lol. Let’s hear your parters side
2026-03-25 23:46:22
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discern777
G :
Only actions do! Consistent over years. Full repair will take just as long.
2026-03-23 16:58:05
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jacobdohg
jacobdohg :
As the withdrawer, do I reach out if she doesn’t? I want to give her the time and space she needs but also want her to know I’m thinking of her.
2026-03-22 23:19:03
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renerod1223
The Bear :
I sent you a DM. I have a question if that’s ok.
2026-04-08 14:49:46
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therealjcc2
Jonathan :
Thank you for this
2026-03-24 18:59:43
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pen_theo
Pen & Theo 🇦🇺🦘🐨🖤💛❤️ :
Which partner do you use the term “Burnout Pursuer” to describe: The person who’s burned out, or the person who keeps pursuing the relationship? I’m confused
2026-05-11 21:40:17
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_jnelly0
_jnelly0 :
your videos make me feel like she’ll be back one day, thank you
2026-03-23 08:05:59
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t_na222
t_na222 :
I cant get my husband to understand the needed space. I see him two evenings a week to take our 2.5 year old granddaughter out to his house for supper so he can see her. but really do you do not want other contact Between times
2026-03-23 00:50:54
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electraplant
💟 :
Thank you so much for your posts
2026-03-30 03:04:45
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lilyitsokay333
˙⋆✮ 𝖑𝖎𝖑𝖎 ✮⋆˙ :
But what if my partner (let’s say the burnt out peruser) has only only once or twice communicated what’s wrong? Actually, before he ever communicated anything, he checked out and went “burn out”. I feel like I’m not getting a fair chance to even try and change things
2026-03-28 02:04:38
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doonspec
Doonspec :
She didn't have to wait to get flowers , help, affection , support etc etc. I gave everything and she still walked away saying that she needed to be alone. heart broken since.
2026-04-12 13:38:38
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grassfedcyborg
beth :
my partner is burnt out too. she sent me a paragraph the day after the breakup about how much she cares for me and all. but i kept no contact bc i want to work on myself and move on. ofc i want her back, how much no contact do you think is appropriate for contact to start again. should i be reaching, or wait for her?
2026-03-23 00:48:03
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vetrosinic
vetrosinic :
How does this not fix it
2026-04-02 15:44:49
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bkama23
BB :
Do you think it can work if you're both under the same roof co-parenting?
2026-04-28 13:10:57
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lilhuynh91
lilhuynh91 :
love this - so real
2026-05-11 08:03:12
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boujeesh
naz :
well… what can you say when your partner says that the relationship really ended? and that she will not trust you ever again :(
2026-03-23 12:07:42
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