@deyoung_exchange: The hardest part isn't forgiving your dad. It's forgiving yourself for not being perfect to your kids because of what he did. That's the real man moment. You can't blame him forever. That's a prison you build for yourself. But you also can't pretend it didn't happen. That's just lying. Maturity is taking what he broke and making sure it doesn't break the next generation. That's where the forgiveness actually matters. Not because he's absolved. But because you're finally free. That's when you stop being a boy. #goviral #fyp #relatable