I think lobola must be negotiated by parents because the minute you tell extended families about the negotiations everything goes south
2026-03-23 14:42:15
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lelo :
He pitched but without the lobola money, the humiliation im still recovering 💔
2026-03-24 21:56:35
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Kay :
And i experienced this o 2nd of December 2025... I almost lost myself, but God intervened 🙏🙌
2026-03-23 17:37:44
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Ndivhu Sibiya :
Is better he didn't even come mine was getting married while I fast for his business trip to be successful
2026-03-23 20:14:15
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D.Pat🎊👏 :
my mom found out the day of the lobola negotiations, my granny told no one, anties and uncles came not knowing what was going to happen, they all thought my granny called a family meeting, kante no it was lobola negotiations, everybody was surprised 😳, they all thought it was a joke, I now understand why granny did that, she knew what we all didn't know
2026-04-04 18:18:20
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Mam Mvelase💕 :
Some rejections are blessings in disguise, one day you'll realize why the lobola negotiations never happened❤️
2026-03-23 17:19:08
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Xikwere :
My husband ‘s family did not come but he ask his neighbours and his cousins and it was all well.
2026-03-26 06:04:57
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Yazmine (YAZ) MABASO :
This advice goes to everyone here... keep your premature plans to yourself. Not everyone is going to be happy for your progress.
2026-03-24 06:12:20
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Sina Montshiwa :
It happened to me 2004, and now happily married for 15 years. you still gonna meet the husband of your dreams my sister, just pray and God will heal you 🙏
2026-03-23 17:36:46
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Lira Rato168 :
new fear unlocked😳
2026-03-23 16:52:44
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Beautiful Mmaphakisho 🦚 :
Se se go ganang se go rola morwalo ❤️
2026-03-23 13:20:24
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swatiexpatdiaries :
Sis when i tell you I keep typing and deleting…the trauma??! One day maybe i will be strong enough to tell my story🫠
2026-03-25 19:57:09
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This comment section is so sad🥲
2026-03-25 15:53:08
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mazoe :
Rejection is actually a redirection.
2026-03-24 17:43:58
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marie26131 :
God knows what he is doing, some disappointments are a blessing in disguise
2026-04-25 15:14:01
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Nana Hamilton :
😭nah the comments gents you can do better wtf
2026-03-25 16:40:09
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D'BONGZ GP :
majita let's respect other families and do the right thing
2026-04-01 23:27:39
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Iam_nocktoolah☑️ :
Amadoda amagundane ashile😭😭
2026-03-26 16:42:07
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Lucy :
Congratulations my love….you will understand later in life.eat good,get drunk,scream and cry for now because joy is coming in the morning
2026-03-24 15:47:29
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Letlhogonolo246 :
Just know mjolo or marriage is spiritual also, protect your potential
2026-03-23 17:10:38
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Mpilo Mvulakazi Lusiba :
Siphuma lapho sisi but nakhu siyaphila ❤️
2026-04-08 17:17:19
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Mokwena Refilwe :
I remember Thuso Mulaudzi' s experience..and now she is happily married... don't worry you will get married to someone who values you . ❤️..May God be with you 🙏
2026-03-25 09:00:13
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Tshwanelo :
it happened to my aunt twice tlhe but now she's married
2026-03-23 23:35:53
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GOSIAME "KITTY" MOLOI :
Wishing everyone who went through this experience healing and comfort 🙏🏻🥂🔥
2026-04-04 17:59:54
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Zee Somdibane :
take it as blessings and protection from unknown. sometimes it faith
2026-03-30 08:31:41
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